Question for men about expectations of women they date.?

Question

I want to know what men really are looking for in a woman and what they expect from them. I'm not referring to sex. Please answer honestly.

Answer 1

I want someone I can talk with, and have fun with. More importantly I want someone who will enjoy being with me.

Sure all men want sex, that is in our genes. Men can breed often and with many partners--it is the best way to spread our genes, but that is only instinct speaking. A man with any quality will be able to rise above their genes. They won't stop wanting sex, but that won't be the end all of their lives.

I am a reasonably intelligent person who has a few hobbies. I don't need a woman who will like everything that I do, but she should at least enjoy some of the things I do and tolerate the rest. I would expect her to want the same from me.

First looks attract a guy, but beauty really is only skin deep. I mean what kind of conversation can you carry on with a pair of large breasts? Jiggle once for no and twice for yes, that's a pretty limited conversation.

Women need more than just a pretty man to get hot they need the relationship. It's in their genes; they are designed to want to carry a child and raise it; to do that they need a male that they can have a stable relationship with. Even if the woman doesn't want children, or hasn't made up her mind, she can't escape her instincts. That's why you are asking this question, you want more from a man than just sex.

You know that the first thing most men want is sex, it’s not our fault, it’s in our genes. But, a quality man will try to rise above his genes and look for a relationship.

I want someone who I can enjoy being with, and who enjoys being with me. I need someone that is as smart as me, and someone with whom I can relate. Everything else is just cosmetic. For that I don’t like huge breasts, I don’t care about big rear ends, I do like blondes (even if it is from a bottle), I like pink lipstick rather than red, and the first thing I look at when I look at a woman is their mouth. Then I look at her eyes, and then I their face. If the woman is dumb, self-centered (or at least more self-centered than I am), or is insincere then I never want to date her again. If we don’t share some likes and dislikes then we won’t enjoy being with each other. If there is more than 15 years difference between us then that could cause problems, but intelligence can make up for that.

In short I want sex, and I want it often—I am a guy after all. But, for the relationship to work I need someone who I can enjoy being with and who can enjoy being with me. Shared hobbies and interests can help this, while insincerity can destroy it.

Oh, don’t look for any deep reasons behind what men do, we are pretty simple creatures; the simple solution is usually the best. Women are the complex creatures who need more for a relationship to work. Men can meet that requirement, but they usually go about it in fairly simple methods. It’s all in the genes.

Answer 2

Men are looking for the same things women are looking for. Appearances, career, financial stability, similar values, emotional stability and compatible views toward raising a family.

She doesn't have to look like a super model, but attractive in her own way. If she has her own career or business, then that shows that she is capable in that respect. Financial stability doesn't mean rich, but she should be able to live within a budget. Similar values are important to compatibility otherwise a "straight as an arrow" guy will not be happy with a grifter girlfriend. Emotional stability and shared views in raising or not raising a family are important for at least the obvious reasons.

Although you're not referring to sex, it is an important criterion nevertheless.

Answer 3

For me personally, I'm looking for honesty, faithfulness, hardworking ethic, family values, high level of education(Ph.D, M.D...etc.) as I'm, and decent looking. I expect her to respect my parents and family members as the way I respect her parents and family members. I expect her to know her ways around the kitchen and that doesn't mean she has to be the best chef like chef Gordon Ramsay nor do I expect her to be a housewife. In another word, I'm not looking for a trophy wife nor am I looking for a woman who is only "good" for one thing.

I hope this help!!

Answer 4

you ask what men want and then you say the answer the answer can't be sex. You disqualified the obvious, simple answer. It starts with sex and the rest comes along.

Answer 5

i mean not all men are rude just be fun but dont be a slut make them work for it or avoid it completely you must have curves and happy all the time dont go crazy with make up i hate the stuff you guys look better without it

Answer 6

honesty commitment to only one man ,integrity, then once thats all there beauty, brains then comes a good lover this is the perfect woman ,,,she dosnt exist

Answer 7

as long as u r not referring to sex,,then , we dont want anything from women,,

Answer 8

A woman who is sweet, cute, a passive personality, and is submissive to her man.

Answer 9

honest, committment, a true friend among friends, someone you can go to and trust with your innermost thoughts

Answer 10

my man said they like freaky women