I hear the story over and over...For women it is much easier to meet guys. All they need to do is smile and start a good conversation with a good prospect. For guys, we have to start the chase, look for a "pretty" girl, face rejection and start over again.
2006-08-23 13:53:35 · 15 answers · asked by goodman6079 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well women are talking about the quality of men.......sure there are a lot of losers out there but they want quality men like we want quality women........would you just pick up some fat ugly loser woman off the street..............also i wanna say you should have picked my answer as the best for your last question........you and other people just pick the answer that you want and not the one that is good for you........if you call a woman the day after you get her number then shes gonna think your desperate but you dont seem to believe me.......also if you recall her to see what went wrong she will just keep blowing you off and not returning your phone calls........trust me man i know what im talking about........nothing wrong with calling her back but if you call her back the day after you called her which is also the day after you get her number it sends signals to her that your desperate.........do what you want but im warning you
2006-08-24 20:18:33 · answer #1 · answered by anonymous 27 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well first off men and women have to face rejection, look for the pretty or handsome face, strike up a conversation, and start over again. In my opinion girls have it a little better cause guys are crazy for girls. Secondly not all guys cheat.
For some strange reasons girls for the bad boys and are happy and content, but when it comes time for a serious relationship the bad boy backs out and runs for the hills. He ain't ready for committment. Then the good guy is next in line for that chance with the girl. Girls don't look at the nice guys. We aren't good enough for them until they're ready to settle down. That's when you hear "I need a good man in my life, someone who doesn't play games and knows what he wants out of life." We look good then don't we .
Bottom line is that a majority of girls over look nice guys cause we don't stand out. Most of them won't give us a chance unless we're extremely good looking or something of material value comes into play. Be patient and don't bother with them. If they complain keep this in mind. "You're a decent guy and if they can't open their minds and take a chance with some like you then it's their lose"
2006-08-23 21:07:54 · answer #2 · answered by shinuyugi 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Because women have ridiculous expectations.
And it is not easier to approach a guy, I have approached every person I have dated and I still face the same things.
The key is I dont care about rejection, the worse a guy can say is "no" and that is definitely not the end of the world. So go and ask chicks, out ask two or three out in the same day. The rejection should make you try harder, not give up so easily.
My mother says Im a guy trapped in a chicks body, I like it.
2006-08-23 21:00:47 · answer #3 · answered by lalala 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes. It is definately much easier for women to find a date than guys. Why are they complaining so much?
Chinese has a saying that goes: Man has to overcome mountains to chase a Woman. Woman only has to cross a pool of sand to chase a Man.
2006-08-23 20:59:15 · answer #4 · answered by Kurtosis 1 · 3⤊ 0⤋
because really, most of the good ones are taken. you see someone totally perfect and he is gonna be taken, or something's really wrong with him. isn't it the same with you? girls face rejection too and we're not so different.
honestly, for guys, the process is the same with girls. take your own advice: smile genuinely, no wandering eyes, talk intelligently and with some humor, and certainly you'll get a date. try to be as sweet as possible and one day, some girl is going to look into your baby blues and swoon.
2006-08-23 21:00:43 · answer #5 · answered by deer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes this is a huge cultural obsurdity. Women don't have to do anything, to get us men, but we have to work our buts's off sometimes to get them to look in our direction. Take my advice get an English girlfriend they're much easier to get to know.
2006-08-23 20:58:26 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
No, they seem to ask why there are no GOOD men available. Yes, there is a lot of scum out there. That's their question. Not getting them, it's finding the good ones.
2006-08-23 20:58:37 · answer #7 · answered by flower 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Because it seems like the good ones are either taken or gay.
2006-08-23 21:01:26 · answer #8 · answered by sweetgurl13069 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It isn't as easy as u think for women, they have to worry about being scorned yet again!
2006-08-23 20:58:04 · answer #9 · answered by fox69 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No, life isn't fair. You just have to learn to play the game right....
2006-08-23 20:56:01 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋