If a couple has been dating for several years and everything is grand, do you think it is wrong for her to set a dead line for him to ask her to marry her, and if so if he doesn't is it wrong for her to move on?
2006-08-23 13:50:08 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes it's wrong. I mean, you could be doing that but wouldn't you be getting your hopes up for nothing. Just think wouldn't it be awesome if you got randomly proposed to, and you didn't know it was coming and weren't wanting it to come so bad it hurts?? I think it would. Don't set expectations, you won't be disappointed. If you want to know where your guy stands, ask him whether he's thought about marriage. Only bring it up once or twice with lots of time in between. Don't stress over this too much. You've got a great relationship as it is now, don't risk it too much. Good Luck. He'll come around eventually. =)
2006-08-23 14:13:12 · answer #1 · answered by MakeBelieve. All you want. 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No i dont think it is wrong for her to set a deadline considering the fact that the couple has been together for 7 years by this time you should realize it is time to get married. She cant wait around forever.
2006-08-23 21:00:07 · answer #2 · answered by sweetness 24 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have been dating for at least 3 or 4 yrs. she wants a commited relationship, there's nothing wrong with that.... And if he say's no then she actually has every right to move on with her life... because she isn't getting any satisfaction & security that's a BIG thing for females. good luck
2006-08-23 20:59:09 · answer #3 · answered by BIG BEN 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm a big fan of asking for what you want... if you want to marry this man then have a discussion with him. If he says no then I would move on... he's not committed to the same things you and you deserve to have what you want in life.
2006-08-23 20:58:42 · answer #4 · answered by leannainpa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No it's not wrong, all women dream of their wedding so if you are in as relationship for 3 years or more and still no marriage proposal then go find your husband.
2006-08-23 20:54:19 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No it's not right because if she forces him to ask her, she might be making him do something that he doesn't want to do YET. Then there is no telling how many problems they will have in their marriage. She just needs to let him know that she is ready to take that next step.Then he will know. She just needs to be patient with him.
2006-08-23 20:57:54 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well its only fair to go ahead and make it offical but if u dont feel ready u need to ask urself why and whats the hold up and then decide if u really want her or if u want to be able to move on if u choose
2006-08-23 20:52:58 · answer #7 · answered by devil_queen_biatch14 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It happened to me...I could understand where she was coming from. I don't think it was wrong for her to ask for a decision to be made.
2006-08-23 20:52:03 · answer #8 · answered by westgaliberty 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No it is not wrong, but if you truely Love him do you really think you can just move on.
2006-08-23 20:54:42 · answer #9 · answered by catsclaw 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah i think that its wrong because if u love him enough then ull definitely wait for him to propose to u on his own time! give it time and dont give up on him unless THATS REALLY WHAT UUUUUUUUUUUUU WANT! but dont give up on him just cause hes not jumpin to the punch! trust me when u give up on someone it hurts terribly!!!
2006-08-23 20:53:28 · answer #10 · answered by Carly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋