I'm 25 years old, and dating a 15 year old girl. She's very hot. I mean smoking hot. She's fun to be around too. I know it was wrong. But i've knocked her up. Her Dad wants to kill me. I'm in a Jam. any clue what i could do?
2006-08-23 13:20:56 · 41 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you are one sick SOB
if i was her father i would wanna F u up too.
see ya in a couple years when you come out of prison you sex offender!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-08-23 13:23:10 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMG...that is wrong so wrong...but..if you love her???and want to be with her...(she still has a lot of catching up ...socially and SCHOOL) she needs a chance,15 is way way to young (i was 18).. so an abortion is my only suggestion( ( was in the position myself..you have to think can I raise this child properly?,what kind of life can I provide?are we ready to do the right thing?do the right thing and the Dad will not kill you..this i'm writing because I know
2006-08-23 13:36:58 · answer #2 · answered by Ken and Wendy M 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are not bright!!! I get the whole older man, younger woman thing. I started dating my daughter's father when I was 15 and he was 22, but I didn't get pregnant until I was 22. DUDE...he is going to get you for stat rape. Be careful. What are your intentions for this child? Do you *want* this baby or not? Do you love this girl? I mean alot more factor into this then just she's pregnant. She may not want to have a child at a young age. Y'all should talk (all of y'all) and decided what's best for the baby and the young lady.
2006-08-23 13:26:31 · answer #3 · answered by vernise2679 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you have the means to support her and her baby, then reconcile with the father and make things right, (or as much as possible). Don't make a bad situation worse. The father has every right to kill you. Doesn't sound like you chose her for the right reasons in the first place. And dude, she is 15!!! If you love her, DO THE RIGHT THING. Don't avoid your responsiblities, be a fu***** man. Apologize to her father, her family, and your own. Time to grow up Peter Pan.
2006-08-23 13:25:09 · answer #4 · answered by Dr. Help 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well... sounds like you're in a pickle. First, get a lawyer. You could go to jail. Second, get an engagement ring and ask her to marry you, it will make her happy, and the baby legitimate. Sounds like you like her a lot. Some will say that adding marrage to it will make it worse... it may... and it may not. I didn't say marry her... i said ASK her to marry you... Go to the father and show him you mean to take care of her. Good luck... you're not the first kid to get a girl pregnant... it's not that big of a deal. we've been doing it for centuries. Just be responsible. Cool? and have fun! congratulations! Babies are a gift. A freakin miracle.
2006-08-23 13:24:48 · answer #5 · answered by punkdrunkard 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dur... Take responsibility for your actions. Marry the girl and raise the kid together. You leave and you are just one more jacka## out there ruining lives. Think about what you did, what your next move is, and what the right thing to do is. A big decision like this shouldn't be determined by nuts online.
2006-08-23 13:24:45 · answer #6 · answered by tankgirl190 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope. You didn't behave in an adult fashion; now you need to take responsibility. You have to. You said you knew it was wrong; now you get to pay the consequences. I wish I had a better answer to give you, but that really is the only answer if you're half the man you should be.
2006-08-23 13:23:12 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If this is even true...
Boy, did you mess up. If you're lucky, you won't get sent to jail for rape (and it WAS rape in a legal sense). And here you are, still thinking about yourself! What about her? What you need to do is grovel. Plead for forgiveness, pay for the abortion/birth/child support for the next 18 years - depending on what they decide to do. And start thinking about the consequences of your actions. You're supposed to be an adult, for gosh sakes.
2006-08-23 13:25:33 · answer #8 · answered by Bad Kitty! 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should leave the country> Chances are depending on what state your in you will do 3-5 years in the state penitentiary
2006-08-23 13:47:39 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should get yourself a laywer, because I'm pretty sure you could be arrested for statutory rape. Not to mention the fact that you're going to have to pay child support for the rest of your life... and, more importantly, be a good father to your child.
2006-08-23 13:23:37 · answer #10 · answered by mJc 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Marry her when she turns 16 or 18.
2006-08-23 13:23:17 · answer #11 · answered by Karina 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋