I broke up with this guy in december of last year. I have another boyfriend now who I love dearly, but my ex still hangs around me like he did when we were together. What should I tell him to make him stop? Please answer seriously.
2006-08-23 13:18:00 · 6 answers · asked by justxmissingxyou 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Some guys have the skin of a 'rhino' and they simply doesn't care what you think or felt. More importantly, your bf must be aware of him and what relationship you had with this ex. If your bf is very supportive and trusted you, he will be the best person to solve your problem. Not that he would put his fists on him but rather to protect and shield you anytime you needed. Go everywhere and stick very close to ur bf especially if your ex is around.
You got to learn to be hard and merciless toward this type of person in order to shake him off. Ignore your ex's calls or any encounter you have. What I mean is, ignore him totally even if tries to make a conversation with you. Never start a conversation as it will never end.
As I said, your bf will be the best person to help you.
2006-08-23 13:49:26 · answer #1 · answered by Nice Guy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him it is time for him to move on. Remind him that you have been broken up and it is not healthy to keep hanging on. I would make it more about that you want to have your past relationship ended. You broke up with him before you met your new guy so that doesn't have anything to do with it. Don't torture him with that info if you don't need to.
2006-08-23 13:25:27 · answer #2 · answered by Tarpaulin 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well i think you should tell your ex that you guys arn't together now and u want to spend time alone with ur bf!
2006-08-23 13:22:45 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tellm him this is why we brokeup or tell him your new bf will deal with him if he won't leave u alone. Or if that doesn't work get a restraining order.
2006-08-23 13:23:06 · answer #4 · answered by Steph1490 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him you dont want him around so much and that he is bothering you and you will complain to the authorities if it continues
Good Luck to You and God Bless!!
2006-08-23 13:22:06 · answer #5 · answered by msqtech 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him you aren't interested. If he persists call the cops.
2006-08-23 13:22:21 · answer #6 · answered by Karina 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋