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Would Any Of You Get Worried If A FAmily Member Thretened To Kill You And You Kinda Belived Them

2006-08-23 13:16:37 · 40 answers · asked by harleycheetham 2 in Family & Relationships Family

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Uh, duh! Yes, I would be very worried.

2006-08-23 13:17:54 · answer #1 · answered by Amanda K 5 · 0 0

Yes because some people aren't in their right state of minds when they say things like that. What happens one day if they are in that state of mind again and actually follow through with it. My friend had a brother like that, and he threatened to kill the whole family she said she was scared of him and locked her bedroom door at night because he had a gun and practiced shooting with it. He also got teased alot, came from a poor family and threatened to kill kids at school. Obviously anyone threatening to kill someone else is not mentally in the right state of mind and it is definitely not normal. You don't see Mother Teresa walking around telling people that she is going to kill them or Dr. Phil saying 'I'm going to Kill you Robin." So take the threats seriously, and tell someone else about it, even seek help. Good luck.

2006-08-23 13:32:02 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

i think i would be worried if you felt they were being kind of nasty about it as well........I'm sure they don't mean it literally but obviously i don't know the family member but you shouldnt feel this kind of fear at all especially not from a family member. Try and sort things out with that person if you can, maybe they were just over-reacting to something.
Just don't get yourself killed!!

2006-08-23 13:41:40 · answer #3 · answered by Seriously Though 4 · 0 0

With my family I would definitely be concerned. In my situation, most of them don't know where I live and those who do would be hard pressed to get here. If they did manage to get here, I can most assuredly take care of myself.

If you are being threatened and you take the threat seriously, consider getting a restraining order. Family or not, anyone threatening to kill you should be taken seriously.

2006-08-23 13:21:39 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

If I worried every time a family member threatened to kill me - and at the time they ALWAYS sounded convincing - I'd be in a straight jacket by now!

Though if my family members had listened to ME when I threatened to kill THEM - they might be alive today..........

;o]

2006-08-23 13:21:45 · answer #5 · answered by franja 6 · 1 0

when i was younger my father said i would be better of dead..my dad was a man who didn't have respect for life, or how people felt or anything, he always made me feel that if he took my life or my moms it wouldn't matter..so my mom went to this consular because she was being abused at the time and not thinking clear..and asked if my husband is saying this what should i do..the person told her that he sounds like he means it and i would take steps to get away from him..so soon after that my parents divorced it wasn't easy, and i really as sad as it is didn't want to see him again because i felt he had 11yrs to prove himself and i was done..

So if you think the person is a threat to you, and you have something to do with them, i would meet them in a public place, or always have someone i could trust with me, i wouldn't ever let my guard down, and if i could i would stay away..and let them have time away from me..if be the rest of your life then alright if not and they get over this wonderful but you don't need to feel this way..

2006-08-23 13:28:23 · answer #6 · answered by away right now 5 · 1 0

Get a protective order from Police Dept. If some thing happens your cover at least they know who did it and if you have to kill them in self defense it will help.... plus maybe you won't worry so much....Thanks <:3 }~

2006-08-23 13:25:20 · answer #7 · answered by pitterpatter47 5 · 0 0

yes! take your worries to the police, they will often have a word with the the member of the family.
That member will then know if anything happened to you they would be the first one picked up.
"Daddy Dave"

2006-08-24 09:22:32 · answer #8 · answered by Daddy Dave 3 · 0 0

it's happend to me 7 years ago my so called mother stole money from my kids aged 5 and 7 months at the time it was there Christmas money when we got the police involved before we new it was her she was very helpful at first trying to find out what could of happend then the police told us they had evidence of who it was and should my husband a photo yes you guessed it,it was my mother when we told her she denied it at first then she bumped in to us in town and told us if we had her done for it she told us to say by by to your house while your kids are in bed so she got away with it my kids mean more to me than money but why should she get away with it the police said it was her word against ours now my whole family has turned against me because they say no matter what has happend she is still my mother well to me she is dead my family now is my husband my kids and my husbands family I've never been happier

2006-08-27 12:21:21 · answer #9 · answered by .â?¢Â°*â?¥.Shall.â?¥*°â?¢. 2 · 0 0

Yes
When it happened to me I wrote it down, sealed it in an envelope and gave it to a trusted friend to be given to the police if I were to die unexpectedly.
Threats should always be taken seriously.

2006-08-26 06:48:35 · answer #10 · answered by Amanda K 7 · 0 0

Yes. Get a family conseler

2006-08-23 13:18:42 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

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