I have been going out with a girl for about three months now and she says are relationship is unhealthy but she doesnt want to break up with me because she thinks it will be like giving up. She says that since we have been going out i dont tell her things and that i dont share my life with her i need to know what to do. Because i really love her and i dont want her to break up with me. What should i do ?
2006-08-23 13:12:35 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No woman or girl ever gets enough words out of her guy. (Well, 99% don't--there are some guys that process verbally who talk all the time.) It's mystifying and frustrating to the guy. If you're with her long enough she may just figure it's a guy thing and not yammer about it so much.
2006-08-23 13:18:37 · answer #1 · answered by DelK 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The question is, "do you tell her stuff?" Your girlfriend obviously doesn't think so, so you must be giving her that impression even if you are. Make sure she feels special and tell her things you don't tell anybody else - because if you love her, surely that wouldn't hurt? She has to feel like a important factor in your life and if you don't let her in, she'll feel like you won't trust her. The relationship can't work if she doesn't think you trust her.
If you are telling her stuff, then you can only give her a better impression and explain that you do tell her stuff and that you're happy to discuss any aspect of your life with her. You're going to have to open up if you don't want her to break-up with you, because there's nothing worse than dating somebody who you don't think is telling you anything.
A bit of mystery is attractive to girls: complete and utter bluntless will push them away.
2006-08-23 20:19:08 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her what she wants to know...shouldn't b too hard...unless ur relationship is unhealthy, then givin up mayb the best thing...
2006-08-23 20:15:37 · answer #3 · answered by Darsh(Say it like u mean it) 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋