My ex and I were together for 2 months and 1 week. In that time I was the earth and he was the moon in his life until he went camping for 4 days and I asked if he had fun and if he did anything up there and he said I met a few girls but don't worry nothing happened. And 2 weeks before that I called myself fat to see what he would say and he said I'll buy u lypo and the pills whatever it takes to make u skinny. And then he says just kidding I love u just the way u are. And then I said that I felt bad for my friend who gets rejected alot and he said shes cool I would date her. And then he says don't worry we have plenty of time. And before all that he said that he loves me and he meant it. Then when he got back from his camping trip he only called me once or twice a week. I don't know why. Then he only called me when he wanted to talk or when he wanted something. Then he broke up with me b/c I cheated on him b/c I felt used and un loved. Do u think I deserve better ?
2006-08-23 13:08:03 · 13 answers · asked by Steph1490 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
HELL YES!!! You totally deserve better!!! This guy was being a jackass. Guys don't do that unless they're not totally happy with you. There's plenty of other fish in the sea. Find the one that treats you the way you want to be treated and says the things you want him to say.
2006-08-23 13:12:27 · answer #1 · answered by butterflyattention2006 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Now I suspect like you said you may or may not feel if he might have cheated on right? Well understand something here and go on the same pace with me. Maybe he might not find interest towards you like he used to when you are young at heart it happens sometimes you gotta stop dreaming of that happy ending fairy tale and think a bit stronger then you normaly would because it will bit you both in the ***. I really don't think it was such a good Idea for you to get revenge if he may have cheated on you it is not the right thing to get at in life it only gets worse. Do you have any type of proof proving that he cheated on you with another? I really think no, no matter how his attitude was toward you. You really should think twice about it and do not jump to conclussions. Because if you don't have trust.There is no relationship...
2006-08-23 20:22:37 · answer #2 · answered by Jessica L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look,in my experience...when guys are wishy-washy it means that either a few things are going on. 1: He wants the relationship to come to an end. 2: He is getting to attached to you and feels that he is being to get tied down. Don't worry too much.If the two of you are meant to work things out,it will happen.Until then,just stop thinking about it. Everything happens for a reason. So be happy with yourself,and stay true to who you are,and what you want with life.
2006-08-23 20:15:36 · answer #3 · answered by Julie hansen 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unless you did cheat on him, then count your lucky stars that you are rid of this lying cheating loser. Went on a camping trip and just happened to meet up with some girls? How often does that happen?
If you did cheat, then next time, don't do that.
2006-08-23 20:12:43 · answer #4 · answered by tjnstlouismo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweety, you don't really have proof that he cheated on you, but he on the other hand does have proof that you cheated. This was a rather drastic action on your part just to proof your point. I hope you used a condom!
Yes, you do deserve better, someone who cares more,gives you more attention,but sweety, you won't get that by sleeping around!!!!
2006-08-23 20:27:01 · answer #5 · answered by Dogla 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you do, but you do have yourself to blame for the break up.
You cheated on him, to get back at him, for not calling. You will have to decide if that was the right thing to do.
All you can do now, is find someone else and start all over.
2006-08-23 20:12:52 · answer #6 · answered by johnb693 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
he seems fine, you shouldn't have cheated on him. You seem like a very cllingy person, think about it next time you have a boyfriend. They don't have to moon over you day and night! I think he deserves better
2006-08-23 20:12:34 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He doesn't love you. Bottom line. And yes, you deserve better. Now will you DO better is the question.
2006-08-23 20:12:38 · answer #8 · answered by cami 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetheart you cheated on him, he is the one that deserves better, not you.
2006-08-23 20:12:38 · answer #9 · answered by grrrrme 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No you don't. No one likes a cheat (I bet you don't like one either)
So don't do to others what you don't want done to you.
2006-08-23 20:14:01 · answer #10 · answered by flugelberry 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋