this guy i like and i exchanged information like email and stuff because i wanted to keep in touch from summer camp... do you wait for him to contact you first or do i make the first move.... someone told me that you should wait a week and if he doesnt then i should... should i do that or no and if so do i wait a week from when we exchanged info or from when i last saw him....? he also doesnt know i like him even thought i have left subtle hints and sometimes it looks like he catches them and sometimes it doesnt.... what to do? advice please!!!?
2006-08-23 13:01:16 · 11 answers · asked by sprtzgrl380 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well, me personally wouldn't contact him first ever. but if u like him that much i say wait a week and then contact him. but please, if he doesn't respond on your email please do not contact him any more. it means he doesn't like u, so keep some dignity. good luck, i hope he likes u and writes first.
ps. please never listen advices like:"u have nothing to lose", cos u have - your dignity. this how u feel about yourself is the most important thing
2006-08-23 19:30:14 · answer #1 · answered by jacky 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off, don't presume a guy knows ANYTHING. We are bad at picking up hints, unless you were grabbing his johnson. But, when he gave you the information, wait one week, then if he doesn't give you anything, make a subtle move. Send him something that will say "just thinkin of you" or something like that. Remember, you haven't even established if he knows you like him or not. All you need to do is establish contact and be like "gravity". Let him know you are there, without being too pushy. Focus on other things in your life, and the rest will fall into place. Good luck, hope you get him!!
2006-08-23 13:06:05 · answer #2 · answered by Dr. Help 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Here is a piece of good advice, men, don't get subtle as a rule. Just be straightforward and tell him you like him.
Don't wait a week, who knows, some other girl may like him too, and may e-mail him first.
Doesn't have to be a long E-mail, just say hi, thought I would write and see how you are doing. I enjoyed meeting you at camp, and would love to get to know you better.
Something like that.
When he answers, hopefully, you can go from there.
2006-08-23 13:07:41 · answer #3 · answered by johnb693 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
properly, first element, you're able to be waiting to establish interior people'liveses. meaning, are looking forward to whethey'llll no longer be obtainable. this would not propose he only would not care approximately you, i'm particular by ability of ur messages that he's itching to connect u! And did u point out he works in a wellness center? meaning something would have befell! in line with probability some substantial operation that required his attendance... some thing like that. only wait, he will finally call you returned. wish it enables, Xavi
2016-11-05 11:54:43 · answer #4 · answered by awad 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what kind of contact u r talking about? body inspection contact? or noraml contact like snog? or temperature test contact? up to ur instinct, really. i suggest from the last to the first, u will have fun though. dont contact me.
2006-08-23 13:11:43 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i tell you what hunny dont wait a sec guys this day first come first served go for it if u dont have a mobile mail him if u dont have internet u cant read this answer
2006-08-23 13:39:34 · answer #6 · answered by michael 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
youve already waited too long, he is either screwing two or three chicks tonight, or has nine dates lined up for this weekend.. the answer is you dont wait or you lose out
2006-08-23 13:08:04 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take the bull by the horns and contact him now.You have nothing to lose.You may just make his day.
2006-08-23 13:21:46 · answer #8 · answered by the gunners 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
not less than 3 yrs
2006-08-26 22:07:17 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
get on with it already. call him email him whatever....
2006-08-23 13:04:10 · answer #10 · answered by ryanlas 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋