Does an abortion hurt for those who have had one?

Question

I am getting ready to have one and wonder if it will be painful....how long does it take for the pain to go away? And nobody anti abortion answer because i do not need that right now!

I have no choice but to abort because I have no resources to raise the child. I am very young and can barely make rent now. I am a full time student and my part time job is at minimum wage.

Answer 1

It all depends how pregnant you are. Dilation and curettage (D&C) is a procedure in which the opening of the cervix is dilated or stretched and tissue from the uterus is curreted (scraped or removed). This minor surgical procedure can be used to diagnose conditions such as cancer of the uterus and to treat and diagnose the source of conditions such as abnormal uterine bleeding. It is also a treatment for certain types of abnormal bleeding (e.g., polyps). D&C can also be used to remove tissue that remains in the uterus after a miscarriage and to perform an elective abortion beyond the first trimester (dilation and evacuation). I had some minor cramping with this proceedure. This wasn't as painful as some of my cramps. Afterwards I went home to rest & had minor spotting.
It's good to have someone go with you & drive you home.

Answer 2

Physically it's not that painful-you may be a little sleepy afterwards. Emotionally, it just depends upon your circumstances- those that say you will regret it for life have no idea why you are choosing to do so...I did and never looked back...I am happy that I made the choice not to burden myself or the father with a child at the time~ we were too young and who knows how our lives would've impacted that child's life? That was 20 years ago... make your own decision about this, but also make sure to protect yourself in the future so you don't have to face such a decision again- there are numerous forms of birth control that are far less painful (on every level) !

Answer 3

i believe the questioner clearly stated nobody anti abortion answer. its not suprising they can't respect your request or your choice. im sure you have thought long and hard about this, this is not a decision anyone makes lightly, so dont listen to the haters, you know what you have to do for you.
as to your question, it does depend on how far along you are. up to 8 weeks much easier on you than up to 12 weeks. there will be cramping during the procedure, its different for different people. for some its just like a period, for others pretty painful cramps. only lasts a few minutes, then you'll be in recovery with a heating pad and start to feel better4. you may have some intermittent cramping for a few days, motrin and heating pad help. as far as emotional pain, that also depends on the individual. you may continue to dwell on it, you may never look back. depends on your circumstances and the kind of person you are. but no one on these boards can tell you that you WILL feel emotional pain for the rest of your life. they dont know you. only you can decide if you will be okay with this choice

Answer 4

I support Pro-Choice. So no one has the right to tell you what you can do and what you can't. Here's some facts and answers things for you:

Is abortion painful?
Every person responds to and tolerates pain differently. Abortion patients are generally surprised at how well they feel physically after their abortion. Although most women experience some hard cramping during the procedure, the intensity of the cramps begins to lessen quickly while in recovery. When patients leave, they may feel light cramping that can be managed with Tylenol or Motrin. During a non-surgical abortion, patients can experience a more intense level of cramping for a longer period of time but pain relievers and rest can help manage the discomfort. We recommend that you discuss your pain management options with your chosen provider.

There are tons for questions and answers. I've added the link for you.

Answer 5

I no you asked for no anti answers but it is a public forum - Having no money to raise is a child is not an excuse - use a condom - abortions should not be used as a form of birth control - think of the mental repercussions later in life - i had a friend who had one in her teens for the same reasons and regrets it every day - there are so many people out there (present company included) who can't seem to have a child of their own and would love - absolutely love - to adopt a child somebody else is unable to care for. There are several clinics who will help you during your pregnancy - that is free and then you can give the baby to somebody who would love to raise it. Being pregnant is temporary - killing this poor innocent creature who did not ask to be born is forever - remember that - this child did not ask to be born. It is a very selfish reason - you can drop out of school and get a job - go back to school later if you decide to keep it for yourself - but think of the baby. And if you dont keep the baby - 9 months of being pregnant is a small sacrifice to pay for somebody to lead a happy life and also the happiness it'll bring to a couple who can't have kids.

And to answer the actual question, yes there is discomfor during the procedure and then there is mental pain afterwards for most people with a conscience.

I guess for all you people hating on pro-lifers just be happy your mom was pro-life. But i suppose this is one of those subjects like politics and religion that we all have to agree to disagree on.

Answer 6

It is uncomfortable and then you may have some port-partum depression/blues. This is brave, whether or not others support you; I cannot imagine that you made this decision lightly.

Please don't let the haters hurt you. You are going to be fine. Do not go alone. Trust your bf or your friends. I am the parent of an adopted child so I am not unfamiliar with other options but this is your choice and your path.

Be careful and don't beat yourself up. A heating pad will help and having sanitary napkins will help as there will probably be bleeding. Ask for pain medication.

Good Luck.

Answer 7

Depends on the person. But they give you painkillers for it, and of course there's cramping. Most of the people here have explained it very well so far. I just wish the anti abortionists would have left it alone. They should stay away from where their not wanted.

P.S. When they say not to eat anything for a certain amount of time they mean it. My friend didn't listen and got horribly sick. So make sure you take all the precautions they give you.

Answer 8

No It doesnt hurt your body, however you probably will be heartbroken for a quite some time. I was 19 my first doctor just celebrated her first bday and i found out...i was a single mom...working full time...and doing classes over the internet....do dont listen to any body else ....YOU just fo what is right for you.

Answer 9

it doesn't really hurt. you can choose weather or not to be put to sleep, it is only a mild sleep and you may recall somethings that happened. i recomend being put to sleep instead of awake trust me on that one. they give you a muscle relaxer and also a pain killer so there is no pain during the procedure just a little discomfort. you may have some cramping afterward but take and aleve and rest you will be fine...it hurts emotionally and that takes time to heal. good luck and if you have anymore questions fel free to ask me. i'm pro choice and am a couselor for women who are going thru this and i have been there.

Answer 10

for the mom it causes cramps like a heavy period some bleeding afterwords can in rare causes cause a major infection or infertility later in life. For the baby it causes the heart to stop in early pregnancy the baby dies pretty quick after being pulled away from the womb dose not feel pain unless done in the 2ed trimester. I AM PRO CHOICE i do think women should be made to see the ultrasound before having it done. I saw my son at 8 weeks i was 17 I knew it was not a blob he moved his arm buds twitched he's alive and well now 10.5 no matter what your $ situation you can choose adoption it dose not cost you any money just some time.