Okay, here is the situation. This girl i like is 13. I'm 15. She used to be all over me, i mean, we would always do everything together, and we would stay up really late at night, and talk every night. Well anyways, people started talking about it, and she really backed off. So I asked her out, she said I dont know. I thought it was a nice way of saying no, but she told her friends she might like me. Well it's been about 2 months now, and she has completely backed off. I mean she recently got back from Costa Rica, and we hasn't even talked since, and she got back on Sunday. And rumor has it that while there, she was all over these two guys in my youth, just like she used to be with me. Well now her friends say she dont like me at all, and just dont wanna hurt my feelings. But her and her mom are really close, and her mom says she's just scared, and cant decide between me and these other guys. But she says she duz like me. What should I think. I mean i just cant move on.
I mean i've liked and many girls, but none like her. There is just something about her, and I know I sound crazy since I'm only 15, but i'm being dead honest. I would do ANYTHING to get her back, will she come back around? And what should I do? I mean because, it was obvious she liked me, she even sent me a song one time, and I think she was trying to say something to the effect that she likes me, just doesnt know what to do. But i missed the point. Well now it seems she has lost those feelings, for no apparent reason, so what should i do to get her back??
I mean, dead serioulsy, i would die for her. I know you think im' crazy, but its the honest truth. Now she's is Totally all over this other guy, but barely ever talks to me. What should i do? I've tried so hard to move on.
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4 days ago
I mean, I'm gonna see her today for the first time in almost a month. And im almost positive she'll totally be all over this guy, and wont pay me any attention. What should i do?
2006-08-23 12:25:02 · 13 answers · asked by your mom 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well that happended and we actually talked some, she starteda conversation with me, but the next day i sent her an email, askin how she was, she replied, and actually talked, and said she was doin sorta good and asked how i was........well i emailed her and told her how i was, and asked if everything is ok..why wouldnt she reply?
2006-08-23 12:28:09 · update #1
First of all, don't see her if you cannot control your feelings for her.
2006-08-23 12:30:32 · answer #1 · answered by Lyon D. 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One, calm down. Life has it's ups and downs, and if you get too worked up, you'll miss the chance to affect a situation. Try this:
Tell her how you feel. No B.S., nothing dramatic, just explain to her that you really like her and want to be with her. You can't force someone to like you.
After that, see what she says. If she stays with the other guy, then say "S**t!", and either
A) be her friend, and be supportive. This let her know that you actually care, and she wouldn't be just a fling. Also, if they break up, you have a chance (as long as you didn't contribute to the break up).
B) walk away and chalk it up to a lesson learned. Life is tough like that. Don't obsess, you're 15, you've got a lot of life ahead of you, enjoy it. Yeah it hurts, but you get past it.
2006-08-23 12:34:01 · answer #2 · answered by notoldcrow 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well yeah to be honest, 15 and in love? i think you're a bit too young... but if you think so go for it!
i agree with her mom... i think she's just scared of what people will say of her and she doesnt want to hear rumors about her... she might not come back to you because of what people said... however i think that if people begin to start talking about her with this new guy that she will back off also...
to get her back i think you should be really romantic... get her roses.. buy her stuffed animals... try to be affectionate towards her... call her every day...
2006-08-23 12:32:22 · answer #3 · answered by baby bear 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
lmao ...puppy love ..or maybe not me and my husband got married when he was 17 an di was 18 ..you can love someone but you cannot make them love you ...and she is just 13 just think last year she was 12 .. i don't think she knows what she wants ..you guys have time so do not rush into things ...go on with your life and date other girls ..hen she will see that you are not waiting around for her.
2006-08-23 12:31:58 · answer #4 · answered by purpal2002002 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
man u need to give her up i mean that don't even sound healthy the way ur crushing on her. and what kind of girl acts like she likes u then totally hooks up with two other guys? i'll tell u who a hoe and u deserve better
2006-08-23 12:29:32 · answer #5 · answered by lia86 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Just move on. You want her cos you can't have her. She knows you like her and hasn't done anything about it except avoid you. Youu will get over this and wonder what you ever saw in her.
2006-08-23 12:32:52 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Your question tells us much more about you and you really need to get some serious counselling.You have some very immature ideas about what you THINK love is.You really need to channel
your energy in school right now.
2006-08-23 12:33:30 · answer #7 · answered by Mark K 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You should talk to her and be her friend for awhile. If she chooses one of the other guys then wait for her! That will show her you really care about her.
2006-08-23 12:28:48 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Maybe she couldn't reply right away or something. Give it time.
2006-08-23 12:31:26 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
#1, you're not my mom and # 2, YOU ARE BOTH TOO YOUNG!
And I'm not the first person that's gonna say it, either!
13 years old...that's jailbait, bruthuh!
2006-08-23 12:27:22 · answer #10 · answered by Munya Says: DUH! 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋