my boyfriend & I have been together 4 two yrs he has broken up with me?
at least 3 to 4 times throughout the 1st year this year thngs have gotten much better.he loves me just as much as I love him and he keeps coming back after he breaks up with me guess bcuz the love is still there he keeps breaking up with me because he cant get over an incident with my ex in the past do you guys think he will really leave me 4ever at anypoint if he trully cant get over the past??hes always there 4 me and treats me right Im just afraid that he will leave help sum advice guys !!!!!im 19 n hes 25
2006-08-23 12:23:10 · 22 answers · asked by micha 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm sure that he will not leave you but there is always that chance he will leave for good.I do not mean to disrespect your boyfriend but If he loves you then he should not keep leaving you then coming back because this is not fair you because it seems to me that you really truly love him very much.I had a boyfriend that did this to me for 2 years and I just got sick of it one day and broke up with him so I can understand because I loved him a lot so just be careful because he might be seeing some else and it might not be working out and he comes back to you because he knows you really love him and I'm so sorry for saying this to you but I would not want you hurt like I did it took a year in half for me to get over him so please jut be careful.You are young ad bright person who seems like a good person and you really love him so I think he will stay he comes back to you and that saying if you love something set it free it will come back to you...God Bless darlin it will be just fine he will stay..
2006-08-23 13:06:01 · answer #1 · answered by kutiepye28 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is going to keep coming back and using you. If he really loved you then he wouldnt break up with you. He is too old to be playing games. Basically when he breaks up with you he goes and dates other people, then gets lonely when that doesnt work out, and calls you. You drop everything for him and give him what he wants. Make the decision for him. Leave him for good.
2006-08-23 19:26:38 · answer #2 · answered by taz4x4512 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
have you ever asked him what hes doing when he leaves you? some men have a terrible time getting over other men in thier womans life and i think hes one of them. and thats to bad because it hurts both of you. but i think the only thing there is to do is sit down the man and talk to him seriously about this because there cant be a relationship of love and trust if he cant get over the past. i think reassuring him that he is the only one is the most important thing. and that he will have to leave the past where it is in the past.
2006-08-23 19:54:57 · answer #3 · answered by moe 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow. well first things first...communication. from my past experiences, if they have broken up that many times, its not gonna last long, but i have been wrong before. but the only way anything is going to get resolved is if you guys talk. age doesnt make a difference...love is love. he will eventually get over the past, depending on what happened. if it was a cheating issue...then more than likely no, he wont get over it. put yourself into his shoes, have the rolls reversed...how would you feel? what would you think?? hope this helps a little bit :)
2006-08-23 19:26:47 · answer #4 · answered by racing_babe55373 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
the realtionship can never really grow unless you guys can b together all the time...it's just that you two have formed that attatchment but have lost the true love that keeps you going even through bad times......then he breaks up with u and gets back together because he knows u will always b there for eachother......ITS TIME TO MOVE ON
2006-08-23 19:31:01 · answer #5 · answered by All Of the Above 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you are just 19.. you don't want to stuck with this kind of relationship..just go out there and see the world..the reason he keeps coming back is sex only!! he knows he will always get it.. So move on and find someones better
2006-08-23 19:37:52 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hes getting to the stage in life where he wants to settle down, and you arent. also he might be attracted to women more his age, and on his plane. at age 19, relationships arent supposed to last more than 6-8 months, they are meant to end so you get to know what you want in a man, and how you want to be satisfied sexually.
its time to move on, and experiance someone else.
2006-08-23 19:26:05 · answer #7 · answered by gesswh0 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You could try to heal him from his past by giving him loads of reassurance and talking to him about whatever it is he's still holding onto. He's gotta learn to trust you.
He needs to let go off past hurt, and you can be the one to help him to do this.
2006-08-23 19:26:03 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if u did something wrong with ur ex than he may can't get pass it. so if u lose him than it's all because of u. and some time love is not enough. so look at it as experience some thing that teach us right from wrong.
2006-08-23 19:42:13 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My advice is to sit down and have a really serious talk about this incident and to ask him if he has forgiven you and if not, will he ever be able to. If he can't, there can't be a relationship with trust.
2006-08-23 19:29:01 · answer #10 · answered by Anick M 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋