my boyfriend ask me to do some thing that i have never did before. said if i loved him i would. i do love him and i don't know what to do. should i or shouldn't i ?
2006-08-23 12:11:03 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
yes you should.
2006-08-23 12:15:00 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
If your boyfriend really loved you he wouldn't be trying to get you to do something you're not comfortable doing.
However, ask him to do you first, or try it together in a 69
I'm sure it will be an activity that you'll both enjoy for a long time
2006-08-23 12:25:04 · answer #2 · answered by Mak A 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If *he* loved *you*, there'd be no pressure.
And I hate to say it, but you may find that if you end up in a different relationship later, something about that man may make you more open to trying it. It's happened to me for a couple of things. I'm not saying dump the guy and find one you want to do this with, but I figure you might appreciate some reassurance that you aren't crazy if you find it happens to you.
2006-08-23 12:19:24 · answer #3 · answered by Katie S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
in answer to your first question, my husband and I completely enjoy oral sex, we perform on each other every time we have sex. As for the second part of your question, I have the same answer as almost everyone else; only do it if YOU WANT to!! If he loved you he wouldnt being pressuring you. It is very enjoyable for both involved. I didnt want to do it and first and I certainly didnt want him to do it to me but after we got comfortable enough with each other it was something we both wanted to try and that,my friend, is the key. It has to be something you both want!!
2006-08-23 12:42:06 · answer #4 · answered by Davesgirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go down on him out of love, but only if you want to.
2006-08-23 12:14:12 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
key word is love and if he love you then he won't ask you to do something you have never done before so the choice is yours is he going to be your soul mate think very hard before you do something dumb good luck
2006-08-23 12:16:20 · answer #6 · answered by poda 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only do what you feel comfortable doing and want to do. If he really loved you he wouldn't pressure you and use the line "If you loved me you would do it".
2006-08-23 12:13:41 · answer #7 · answered by David P 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He should not make you do any think you don't want to do if he loved you then he would not make you do it don't do any think you don't want to do.
If you do feel ready to do this then take it slow and enjoy it but only if you want to do it in the first place.
2006-08-23 12:15:32 · answer #8 · answered by Foxy lady 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should do it if you want to and if you are ready to, not because he gives you a guilt trip. It's fun, though if you like it. Make sure he does the same for you, too!
2006-08-23 12:13:53 · answer #9 · answered by angib18 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't do it. If it makes you uncomfortable, it's not worth it. If he loves YOU, he won't pressure you.
2006-08-23 12:14:49 · answer #10 · answered by ♥2cute4u♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think it's completely find but only do it if your okay with it. it's not that much of a big deal.try it you may like it.
2006-08-23 12:16:37 · answer #11 · answered by thaliyah 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋