my gf and i broke up about a month ago. she said she wasnt seeing anyone. but i find that two days after we split...she was talking to a coworker ...again...a male coworker. we had been having trouble for about4-5 months and after we split. she went right to him. the whole time we were "working it out"...what are the chances she was cheating on me the whole time and was just too LAZY to move out and on with her life so she could "think for herself" she told me she couldnt trust me...do you think she was trustworthy at all? or do you believe she was playing a game until she could make it benificial till she could move? women...what are your experiences with this? im starting to get over her... but she made herself out to be such a strong woman and after two years of going out...took the easy way out in my opinion...and acted like a w***e. am i wrong? please tell me all your opinions. mail me at pencilnbrush@yahoo if you would like more info to work with. thanks for your thoughts
2006-08-23 12:06:44 · 3 answers · asked by pencilnbrush 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i feel for you but at this juncture in time, what difference does it make what she did at what time? she has made a choice to be with this new man and has emotionally left you. alot of people need a security blanket before getting out of a relationship because they are too scared and insecure by the thought of being alone. move on and quit dwelling on a situation that is dead.
2006-08-23 12:10:33 · answer #1 · answered by evonne i 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It could be either. As a man I would be suspicious. On the other hand, I have male friends that I talked to when I was getting divorced. It was just talk as friends. Nothing was ever remotely inappropriate, in fact both of those male co-workers are married. It just helped me to think things through hearing a man's perspective. Doesn't really matter, you are getting over her and that's progress. Don't let your distrust of what she may have done stop you from moving on.
2006-08-23 19:13:28 · answer #2 · answered by justme 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im just wondering but how was she talking to him? is it possible that she could be just going to him for support? i dont know much about her so i couldnt tell you whether she is trustworthy or not... but definatly more info is needed before i can say if i think she was actually cheating on you or not...
but it kinda seems like you are being a bit too hard on her...
2006-08-23 19:13:35 · answer #3 · answered by baby bear 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋