wHAT DO THE RELGIOUS EXPECT SINGLES OVER 16 TO DO IF THEY HAVE NOT FOUND THEIR SOULMATE Whilst they in couple

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WHAT DO THE RELGIOUS EXPECT SINGLES OVER 16 TO DO IF THEY HAVE NOT FOUND THEIR SOULMATE

Whilst they in couples enjoy their sex and love life especailly when its good as young and virile...

And when their relgious bans self abuse as they put it,

They want to ban and consider porn, strippers and sex toys all dirty and immoral...

What are those who are single supposed to do till they find someoen specail and what if they dont?


Ir is it all the relgious are evil spirtful nasties who want all the fun and warmth and to gloat at those singles and not wan ttem to have a life of any sorts even is not a perfect relationship to have something

Note ever heard of condoms and contrception? Funny how the religious give that pathetic excuse as they like to suppress sex ed and birth control...

Oh and the micro argument is bullshit spread around by the church to stop birth control hence the massive spread of aids in africa where the relgious ban condoms as opposed to countries like holland...


Plus repression often manifests in frustration leading to things like abuse or violence or fanaticisim

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And how long are you suppoed to absatin for? are you assuming you will find someoen in 20s, 30s 70s etc... How long do you wiat till you realise its a lie so you miss out whilst they get it

tHE POINT OF THE NUMBER 16 IS THATS WHEN MOST START...


iE SOMEONE WHO STARTED AT 16 BY 21 COULD HAVE HAD 260 WEEKS OF LOVE MAKING, EXPERIENCE AND ACTUALLYTHOSE ARE THE BEST YEARS... TO SOMEONE WHO HAS NOT STARTED...


So aint that er unfair and unjust that the one who has not had anyone gets f all whilst the other has all that?

And therefore immoral to expect the person without 260 weeks lovemaking to accept their lot? ie naff all?

Instead of saying hey you ait got a soulmate so use the time to practice for when you do find someone then you will make a better partner as be better at it? And that way you have someoen to keep you company?

(if using safe sex)



Also a virginty is not specail being good in bead, all the feeling and confidence is specail

Answer 1

Sexuality is a part of life.
It is not a sin.
Whoever says that is an idiot.

Answer 2

Sounds to me that you don't have "a life of any sorts" already if this question is the most important thing in it. You have a totally immature and misguided view of what warmth, love, life is all about. Haven't found a soulmate by 16 isn't quite the end of the world is it?

Answer 3

As a Muslim, I can tell you that Islam prohibits the direct intercourse between a man and a woman other than his wife and this prohibition is not to confine Muslims, Allah would not has an advantage of this prohibition, it's for the good of Muslims for many reasons:
1 - It won't be acceptable, for me at least, to live in a society where any man can sleep with any woman, this would be rather a pen of animals than a society of civilized people .
2 - There're a lot of diseases spreaded due to the random sex relations between men and women, every one know that .

And to answer you about what to do till one finds his "Special", Islam also prohibits women to adorn herself, so that men in the society wouldn't be excited and hence it would be easier for them to be patient till one finds his soul mate.

Answer 4

Well sex isn't like water, food, or shelter. It's not essential for survival. So if serving the Lord is the center of your life, then not having sex till marriage shouldn't be that big of a problem. It's the sex culture of America today that makes it so hard and seem like it's impossible. Don't forget there are plenty of people who give their lives to the church and remain celibate all their lives.

Answer 5

The rules in Islam are the same as far as no extra marital intercourse and no masterbation. This is why they marry very young. Once they are sexually mature, they marry. The Quran encourages married couples to enjoy their sexuality with eachother.

This seem to make more sense to me than telling a youngster to ignore his/her natural urges and marry in their 20's. What does a youngster do during all those years of frustration? Praying only goes so far.

Answer 6

Just because you don't have a spouse ("soulmate"), doesn't mean that you can't love. Love does not need to include sexual intercourse. Sexual intercourse is reserved for husband and wife.

In the meantime, I suggest that you learn what love is. I suggest that you read the Bible. If you turn your attention to God, you might find that these questions you're asking aren't as frustrating as they now seem.

Answer 7

TRY SELF CONTROL!

After one finds someone special what are you planning to do that is special?

Pass along a disease perhaps.


Who is going to take care of those Special little Babies you produce while being virile and young and strong?

ALL the Gods regulations are for a very good reason.

Answer 8

Strange from me but I actually think that would be really special,having intercourse after marriage.Especially if They`ve both chosen this option. It`s pretty touching..could speed up the proceedings though !! Marriage should also be about sexual compatibility though!????

Answer 9

First of all, go back to school and learn to write so that you can be understood. If you haven't found your soul-mate, so what? Just abstain from sex until you are married. Sex outside of marriage is empty. Plain and simple.

Answer 10

Cold showers and prayer. We didnt make up the rules.