Shes 13 and used to be all over me. I'm 15. She was all over me, and then people started talking about it and i asked her out. She said idk maybe and now 3 months later barely talks to me anymore. It's like sometimes shes nervous around me, and doesnt know how to act, and other times it seems like she doesnt care about me. SHe told her mom, cuz ther are really close, that she is just REALLY scared of ruinin the friendship. Her mom said that if a nother girl Really REALLY grabs my eye, then i should move on, but if not, and I really like her daugter, then i should wait for her. I like her so much, I mean why would she back off like that, I didnt do anything to make her stop likin me. SO what hould i do do? And what do you think is goin thru her mind. I mean I reaLly like this girl, i've liked many , but none ,like her. Please help. I mean Ive tried so hard to move on, but i like everything about her, her smile, the way she laughs, i could go on and on. What should i do???
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BUt, she also told her friens she just doesnt wanna hurt my feelings? But she told her mom something totally different. SHould i believe her friends, or her mom. cuz i mean it could be, she is just scared and doesnt wanna anyone to know that she is.
2006-08-23 11:53:53 · 5 answers · asked by your mom 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i mean, i have really tried so hard to move on..shes everything i think about.. its so hard..please help
2006-08-23 11:56:24 · update #1
at the age you both are there is going to be a lot of confusion emotion-wise. just be patient with her and yourself
2006-08-23 11:57:04 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well u sound like a sweet guy who really likes this girl and thats a nice thing to hear these days! i was a 13 year old girl 8 years ago and its hard ur body is changing and ur getting periods and boobs, u dunno what u want oout of life, u still want to be a little girl but u are also growing up. BOys a few years ago were annoying people at reccess who u wanted nothing to do with now all of a sudden they are cute and interesting...shes probably just scared cuz ur older than her and, she doesnt wanna ruin the friendship..i would believe her mom cuz her friends might not be telling the truth, if its meant to be it will happen and i hope for ur sake that it does cuz u seem sweet! good luck.
2006-08-23 19:00:32 · answer #2 · answered by ♥ YaHabibeDisney ♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
13 is very young....wait until she is older (maybe 15 like you) and if you still like her then go for it. Friendship is good at this age. Relationships at your age are very emotional and confusing. You guys are so young you have forever to get together no need to rush anything....
2006-08-23 18:59:23 · answer #3 · answered by Nicolleta 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you answer your own question yes she is scared and don't want any body to know and she told her mom the truth you are probably her first love and she don't know how to handle it good luck
2006-08-23 19:00:06 · answer #4 · answered by poda 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
grow up, and by the way dont get in love un till you are bigger tis better loves hurts!
2006-08-23 19:02:13 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋