my gf is clinically depressed weve dated for a year in that year there was 2 bad days and 363 great days but the bad day resulted in her cheating on me (didnt sleep with the guy) i got passed that it hurt but im over it... my question is should i move on not because she cheated on me but because she clinicall depressed and may make mistakes again or should i stay cause 95% of the time things are great?
2006-08-23 11:47:24 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
she is now on meds after her incident and shes not phyiscaly selfdestructive
2006-08-23 11:52:20 · update #1
Having a girlfriend who is clinically depressed-from your description above-isn't exactly the easiest thing in the world. If you love her, and you are willing to stick by her side no matter what, then I would suggest that you stay. But, if you feel like you aren't going to be able to handle the cheating and her depression and everything else, then it would be best that you move on. It's good that things are ok between you two 95% of the time, but how do you think things are going for you?
2006-08-23 11:53:07 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
well maybe she doing it again i mean the cheating thing?like people say the road gets bumpy but if she that depress dont break up try and talk or spend some time alone so she could clear her mind off on a few things some people cant forget what they do to you maybe thats why she feels so bad
2006-08-23 18:52:22 · answer #2 · answered by chinora m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she didn't have sex with the guy it is not cheating! and violence don't solve anything. it depends if you can put up with her depression, if it's great 95% of the time.why move on? if the depression gets worse i would leave.most people learn from there mistakes.
2006-08-23 18:57:58 · answer #3 · answered by smurfette_ftwayne 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is soooo hard to find a relationship that is 95% great. I would stay but you MUST get her on antidepressants or she may do something even worse like hurt herself.....
2006-08-23 18:50:43 · answer #4 · answered by Nicolleta 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should stay with your girlfriend and help her get over her depression. 95 percent sounds great to me.
2006-08-23 18:50:46 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey turkey bowler, do u think for 1 minuit that if U cheated on her "because your depressed" that **** would be ok? what the hel! do 'er up and run her off
2006-08-23 18:55:22 · answer #6 · answered by Dick Dastardly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would say, seeing as u know her issue is medical, be there for her and try to look past the cheating n be there to support her lol
2006-08-23 18:53:03 · answer #7 · answered by Im_da_damn_boss_nerd!!! 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the other 5% could get you in serious trouble unless she is medicated.
bail unless you are sure you feel safe you never know what she will tell someone when she is trippin!
2006-08-23 18:51:29 · answer #8 · answered by longfellow j 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get her on medication. IF she stays on the medication and you see a change in her attitude stay.
2006-08-23 18:51:10 · answer #9 · answered by Suesan W 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋