Do I need to stop or continue loving him....
2006-08-23 11:43:46 · 30 answers · asked by Bill D 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if you love him then continue loving him. find out how he feels, maybe ask him out.
2006-08-23 11:45:50 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is no more different than being in love with a girl. Is the feeling mutual. Or in this case, more importantly, does he dig dudes? If he's not then don't stress about it because you don't even have a situation in that case.
If he likes you back, then what's the problem? You are good to go.
And if he were into guys but doesn't like you, move on. Plenty of fish in the sea and the best way to heal is to go out and meet more people.
2006-08-23 18:49:11 · answer #2 · answered by Lyon D. 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The first question is whether or not he returns these feelings. Kind of a "duh" there, but you don't mention anything.
The second question is whether or not you could actually handle everything that goes along with loving another man. I've heard there's at least one segment of the gay community that really doesn't like bisexual men, because they're afraid the bi guys are going to try and "play it straight" in public, relegating their relationships to "dirty little secret" status. (Dan Savage had a great column on this a few years back.) And I'm going to side with them on this. If you aren't willing to have a relationship with him that's known of by at least your family and close friends, then shut off those feelings right now. He deserves better.
2006-08-23 18:49:59 · answer #3 · answered by Katie S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok..... Find Jesus?!?! C'mon!!!
Honestly..... Yeah, follow your heart.... .Do what makes you happy.... nobody else is going to do it for you.
Ask yourself... if you really have feelings for a person.. A PERSON... not a guy, not a girl... just look at it as a person...... should you MAKE yourself STOP having feelings for this PERSON, because society makes you feel like crap about it???? Well, I can't answer for you, but if it were me... NO, I would not let society and all the religious followers that tell me I'm going to hell, rule my life, my love or my happiness.
Good luck man.
2006-08-23 18:50:49 · answer #4 · answered by bluehorse89 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there nothing wrong with you but you need to take the other person feelings into consideration and make a choice cause either way you go someone heart will be broken and thats hurts and they don't deserve that so good luck
2006-08-23 18:55:06 · answer #5 · answered by poda 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DUDE!!! Knock off the gay stuff.. Boobs and bottoms are soooo much better than a pair of knads to cup inyour hand.. Being gay is just wrong in every since of the way.
2006-08-23 18:50:45 · answer #6 · answered by tman137 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you know your gonna get slammed by this question. It's your business if your bi and you love a guy. Do what you feel is right, not what we tell you
2006-08-23 18:49:14 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he loves you and the relationship is good for both of you, definitely continue. All love is good love.
2006-08-23 18:47:38 · answer #8 · answered by Peggy M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How does he feel about you? People are people, they can't help who they fall in love with. If a relationship makes both people happy, and they are good for each other, who am I to say that it's wrong?
2006-08-23 18:47:31 · answer #9 · answered by mightymite1957 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that u should follow ur heart and dont worry about what ne one might say to u because only u can make ur dreams come true, and only u can choose who and what u fall in love with, and only UUUU can determine ur future!
2006-08-23 18:46:31 · answer #10 · answered by Carly 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Chris Rock said it best there is no BI you either suck D I C K or you dont. Either way you go PICK 1.
2006-08-23 18:49:50 · answer #11 · answered by ilikegivingfacials 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋