2006-08-23 11:31:46 · 13 answers · asked by I e 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Stop picking crappy men. For instance, if you meet your man at a bar, chances are he is crappy. If he checks out other girls or even talks about them, he is crappy. If he is really into material things, he is crappy. Hey hon, you get what you look for.
2006-08-23 11:34:57 · answer #1 · answered by 1,1,2,3,3,4, 5,5,6,6,6, 8,8,8,10 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I don't care what others are saying there are good men and women out there that can be trusted and are also looking for the same. And you have to remember also all men are not the same just like a personalty, different from person to person and the same applies to women also.
2006-08-23 18:36:38 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will have to be patient, and study a man's true character before you can fully trust him. There is no magic potion or spell.
He will do the same for you. He will trust you when he knows that he can say something without you yelling, pouting, giving him the cold shoulder. You will trust him if he's honest and forthcoming.
All these things take time...
2006-08-23 18:33:40 · answer #3 · answered by ♥Saffire♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No really has the answer to that .
I no longer trust women after what I went through with a mentally ill wife .I was married for 23 years and had to live with her mental illness for the last 13 .She became violent ,stole from me and even tried to overdose me with her medicine .
I have an awful lot to give but fear it could happen again.
After all MANY women are affected with some form of depression or emotional illness sometime in their lives ,
2006-08-23 18:41:09 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personally, I'd go to a therapist and talk to them about your trust issues. If you know you have problems with trusting guys in your life, there may be more to this and a qualified therapist will help you work out these issues.
Once you've gotten to know yourself better and understand where these feelings are coming from, you'll be able to trust people better and to know when not to be wary. Good luck!
2006-08-23 18:36:38 · answer #5 · answered by Peaceonearth 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be untrustworthy for 3 years. no just kidding. I've been with my boyfriend for 2 years and i still at times get suspicious for some reason. been cheated on often in the past.
2006-08-23 18:34:44 · answer #6 · answered by Nicky K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if you look anything like your avatar, trusting men is your last problem. So I'll end with a famous quote youmay have heard... "and that is all I got to say about that"
2006-08-23 18:34:30 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
why don't u get 2 know him make sure he's not going out with anybody be sure u don't act desperate because then he will cheat on u and ask someone that knows him if he;s ever cheated on someone else because if he did it ones he can do it again and if they cheat on u and u really liked the person it's going to be hard 2 forget them just be carefully because some boys can be.......................................
JERKS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
belive me some of them think there some kind of players or something
2006-08-23 18:39:54 · answer #8 · answered by nina buena 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't trust men...you gotta keep an eye on them
Such is life...
PS - whoever gave me a thumbs down is a stupid a**hole.
2006-08-23 18:33:27 · answer #9 · answered by . 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Time & patience. When you are least expecting love it will happen. Good Luck ! Enjoy your life!
2006-08-23 18:34:29 · answer #10 · answered by Z-Cat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋