well, this really great guy that i have been dating asked me if i wanted to move away with him.. not live with him, b/c we are both devoted christians, but move to live closer... he even suggested him paying my rent... i have always wanted to move... and i would love living closer by him, but the roomate i will have is one of his friends... who may like him... another thing, she is an atheist, hard-core, (though this doesn't matter to me, as long as we respect each other)
but to leave my town, i would be leaving my friends, family and church family... i have lived in this town all my life (18 years), and i've always wanted to move though... i will only be living there for 4-5 months b/c i will be going to college...
so what do you think i should do???
2006-08-23 11:24:06 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think you should go for it. If you really like/love this guy, go for it. =) I wouldn't worry too much about the roommate liking him. The guy chose you and wouldn't have offered to pay the rent if he was after the other girl. Plus she's atheist, so that's another good reason he'll stick with you.
Besides, 4-5 months will be here and gone before you know it, and your experience away from home will be something to look forward to telling your family and friends about.
Good luck with whatever you decide to do. =)
2006-08-23 11:33:22 · answer #1 · answered by Punky Brewster 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you will still be going to college AND you have somewhere to move back to. There is really no reason not to give it a try. You said you always wanted to move now is your chance. However I would make sure I had enough money to get back home before I left. What I mean is. Have enough money to get you and stuff back put away and DON'T spend it. Are you planning on paying for anything once your there. Do you have a way to pay? Depending on him for everything is not a good idea.
2006-08-23 11:29:55 · answer #2 · answered by Suesan W 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you will be leaving in a few months anyway, and you have always wanted to move, so what's the problem here?
If a man I loved asked me to move to be near him, I don't know how quickly I could pack. Love doesn't come around all that often that you want to pass it up.
2006-08-23 11:27:15 · answer #3 · answered by physandchemteach 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go! If you don't like it you don't have to stay there. That is the beauty of being able to move! I'm sure once you meet your new roomie you will find a common ground to start a new friendship besides your boyfriend. Give it a try!
2006-08-23 11:28:49 · answer #4 · answered by chrisadrian45 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-02 11:16:25 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You've never moved, have you? Forget any feelings you have for this guy, forget any worries about what people will think. I guaran-dang-TEE you that you will ABSOLUTELY REGRET boxing up all your worldly possessions, unpacking them into a new place, and then having to box them up and unpack them again 5 months later!!! Moving out of my dorm room in the summer, and back into it in the fall, was absolute TORMENT for me when I was in college - don't torture yourself above and beyond that!
2006-08-23 11:28:59 · answer #6 · answered by Katie S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen to your heart. If you're unsure it's probablt not the best thing to do.
You're going away to college soon and you're young so moving closer might make it more painful and harder to leave when time time comes.
2006-08-23 11:27:39 · answer #7 · answered by Chr 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go for it. You will find out if he is the one and you will have 4-5months of having fun and getting to know him better. Since you are going to college anyway you are going to have to move at some point.
2006-08-23 11:26:03 · answer #8 · answered by Rawrrrr 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how long have you 2 been dating? if it's for a short period of time and its not even serious yet, why would you leave to move closer to him?
2006-08-23 11:26:17 · answer #9 · answered by chicksgirl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can do it but as long as you pay your own rent. And do if because you want to..not for anyone else
2006-08-23 11:26:45 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋