ok i want to know what he feels for me??ok, on monday my ex came to my house for a family party but my sis invited him and his sister so they came!when i saw him in my house i hugged him and his sister!!and then we went outside and he treated me as if we were still together cuz he would touch my face like he used to like getting my checks and toching me under my chin. and me and everyone eles were going to take pic. so we took some.and when he was going to leave he had my doll that my siter left in there andi wanted back but he wouldn't give it to me and when i would reach of it and held my hand..........so i left it with him and told him to take care of it and then he left!!!!!!!!!!do you think that he still loves me..on once in a while we would talk over the phone.and do you think that he would ask me if i want to get back with him? oh and when we talk by the phone he asks me that if i am going to get with this guy and i always tel him no that i only like him as a friend!!!!bye
2006-08-23 11:20:56 · 16 answers · asked by ♥Unforgetable 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
hes totally in love with you
hes so mysterious
i like that
its hot
but thats your choice
he hasnt asked you out so forget him for a while,and stay with the only one you got
2006-08-23 11:25:16 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know what to say without sitting down and talking it out with you (I hope you have a close friend you can do that with), but one good question to ask yourself is: why did you break up in the first place?
If it was because the relationship was long distance, or because of major life events happening to one of you, then there might be hope for you.
On the other hand, if one of you cheated, or if there was abuse (even verbal) or fighting, or if you just didn't feel a connection, then things are not going to be better the second time around.
2006-08-23 18:27:29 · answer #2 · answered by Eric 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yikes! I'd distance your self from this guy, immediately. If he took your doll (or any of your possessions) he's manipulating you! Sounds like a controlling person and VERY immature.
It doesn't matter if he loves you or what his feelings are right now. How do you feel about him? It sounds like you don't really like his actions and that's why you're writing this. It also sounds like you feel pressure by your family (sister) to have a relationship with this person. If you've already told him you just want to be friends, that is enough.
I don't know your age but if it was me, I'd focus on my own life, school, work, moving out of the family house (if you live with your family). I think the biggest saboteur of your feelings is your sister by inviting him *without* talking to you and letting you know.
Now, you've lost your doll but if I'd let it go and be done with it. At least you've got your sense of self. Good luck
2006-08-23 18:30:05 · answer #3 · answered by Peaceonearth 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl this is coming from someone who chose to be friends with her ex. Don't go looking for signs that he wants you back. If he wants you back he will TELL YOU! Signs are such a crazy thing with men and if you are reading between the lines trust me your eyes will get tired. He sounds like he may still be attracted to you and wants to know that you still like him. But if you two are still talking like friends the best thing to do is be honest with yourself about how you feel when it comes to him and be honest with him about your feelings. Ask him if he wants to get back with you if and only if you feel that you still want to be in a relationship. If you feel that this is the guy for you leave those other guys alone and let your guy know that you are serious. If he broke up with you allow him some time to heal but you can still be good friends with him. If you are not sure about the signals he is sending you when he is toulching your face like you are still together then ASK HIM TO STOP UNTIL YOU AND HE ARE ON THAT LEVEL AGAIN!
2006-08-23 18:34:06 · answer #4 · answered by shoogydoo99 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just keep talking on the phone! Stay friends and see what happens in a few yrs.
2006-08-23 18:23:48 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he still likes you. That does not mean that he wants to get back with you though. There may be things that he did not feel allowed you to be compatible, but I still thinks he likes you.
2006-08-23 18:24:04 · answer #6 · answered by jeff b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be honest with him i think you might be sending him kinda mixed signals and hes confused but i also think that he still likes you just see if he wants to hang out just you two alone and see where it goes from there
2006-08-23 18:23:58 · answer #7 · answered by ♥ Sunshine ♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds to me like he is playing you. Be careful.
2006-08-23 18:31:38 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you obviously still love him
he is playing to get some action from you!
2006-08-23 18:22:55 · answer #9 · answered by grunt_smacker 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is thinking with his ding dong screw him he ain't worth it we was touching you in a way you liked before in hopes it would make you horny and wanna go some place for a quickie
2006-08-23 18:24:32 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋