This guy I am in love with keeps jumping back an forth between me an this other girl, Im in love with him an I want to believe he loves me 2 but evertime I turn around he goes running back to her. He always comes back to me too what should I do? I love him so much!!!
2006-08-23 11:12:41 · 15 answers · asked by dljtr37 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
First, you're not in love with him. You are in love with what you wish he were -- (unless you like being a doormat, and have the self esteem of a snake in a wheel rut), and what he is is not what you want. If you step back a minute, you are the "jerk in reserve", and who wants to knowingly be that. Your hormones, sweetie, are out of control. This is not the guy you want to marry, nor have children with --- he is a baby, and you aren't too far behind if you think this could ever mature into a loving, supportive, mature relationship of admiration, respect, and trust -- key elements that make marriages and relationships work. So what should you do? Find someone else. If you're still in hs, make yourself scarce in his circles. If you are in the workplace, avoid his part of the business. Go out with your girl friends, but dump this guy..........
2006-08-23 11:20:40 · answer #1 · answered by April 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMG!!! The same exact thing happened to me!!! I can only tell you what I did and hope you don't make the same mistake. I kept allowing him to come back to me after he'd leave the other girl. This went on for months. Eventually, the other girl dumped him and I was left looking like a weak, desperate child because I didn't have the guts to leave him. Turns out he didn't want to see me anymore either and I was left with nothing. Keep your pride and leave him NOW. I was so humiliated and embarrassed. If I had only left him earlier, I wouldn't have been so hurt. I did truly love him, but he didn't love me.
Good Luck!!!
2006-08-23 18:20:33 · answer #2 · answered by Katie A 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's not worth it. he's not worth ur tears. please move on. this guys don't love u , like u love him. u deserve much more and u will get it, but don't settle. try going out w/ diffrent guys and hang out w/ freinds and family. but most of all PRAY. that God will help u to get over the hurt and pain ur facing. only God can heal ur broken heart and mend it back together again. If it's in God's will to be with this guy then God will send him to u. u can't go wrong when u put all ur trust God's hand. he's a God that never lies.
2006-08-23 18:19:05 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get him out of your life and spend time doing other things. Avoiding him and time are the only things that can help you get over someone. Seeing other people right away doesn't usually work cuz you're still thinking aboutt he old person and ruining things with the new person.
2006-08-23 18:18:13 · answer #4 · answered by jewan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you may love him but i don't think he loves you. he's having his cake and eating it too. i went through the same thing. i liked this guy for 2 years and we finally went out for about 6 months. i knew that i loved him but after about 5 months, i noticed that he started ingnoring me and finally he just lost interest. i broke it off because i didn't deserve that and neither do you. i still love that guy but i'm willing to let him go because i know he doesn't love me. hope that this helps.
2006-08-23 18:19:09 · answer #5 · answered by georgiagirl164 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say you move on honey, I went through this too, many times we get loved mixed up with passion, first double check your heart, I dont believe u really love him b/c he doesnt love u, and besides u have to love yourself first inorder to be able to love others, and it doesnt seem like u love yourself too much if ure putting up with this abuse....good luck
2006-08-23 18:16:44 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go find a new guy, a great guy you will forget about this jackass in no time. If he loved you...well, you know the answer.
2006-08-23 18:17:10 · answer #7 · answered by Peter 4 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What exactly is lovable about his man?? I personally can't see any reason for you to be in love with him.
2006-08-23 18:16:14 · answer #8 · answered by just42day 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you don't get over them for a while, just walk on if you know that is the best thing.
The best thing to do is always the hardest.
2006-08-23 18:15:21 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to act like you are not interested. Play hard to get. OR leave him alone YOU stalker!!!
2006-08-23 18:19:37 · answer #10 · answered by ronfschmidt 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋