Shes 13 and used to be all over me. I'm 15. She was all over me, and then people started talking about it and i asked her out. She said idk maybe and now 3 months later barely talks to me anymore. It's like sometimes shes nervous around me, and doesnt know how to act, and other times it seems like she doesnt care about me. SHe told her mom, cuz ther are really close, that she is just REALLY scared of ruinin the friendship. Her mom said that if a nother girl Really REALLY grabs my eye, then i should move on, but if not, and I really like her daugter, then i should wait for her. I like her so much, I mean why would she back off like that, I didnt do anything to make her stop likin me. SO what hould i do do? And what do you think is goin thru her mind. I mean I reaLly like this girl, i've liked many , but none ,like her. Please help. I mean Ive tried so hard to move on, but i like everything about her, her smile, the way she laughs, i could go on and on. What should i do???
2006-08-23 11:08:24 · 19 answers · asked by robinson z 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
BUt, she also told her friens she just doesnt wanna hurt my feelings? But she told her mom something totally different. SHould i believe her friends, or her mom. cuz i mean it could be, she is just scared and doesnt wanna anyone to know that she is.
2006-08-23 11:09:44 · update #1
How cute! but you're only 15 ! your mom should mean the world to you. not her
2006-08-23 11:10:42 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stick with her mom. Keep in mind that you two are very young and new at this. She probably is nervous and scared because she doesn't know what to do with her feelings. I think you should talk to her about how you feel and try to get her to open up and tell you how she feels so you both have a better understanding of what is expected from each other. Be honest with her above all.
2006-08-23 11:25:10 · answer #2 · answered by chrisadrian45 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay friendly but back right off. Do not call her, and if she calls you do not talk long and think of a reason to get off the phone. If she likes you she will keep trying to contact you. Keep this as a rule for the rest of your single life. Never turn in to a wuss and buy things or send a poem or anything. just be secure with yourself. You are very young and you will have many crushes, so you have plenty of time. Do not stress over this one girl and do not talk to her mom, I am sure it just makes you a joke to them.
2006-08-23 11:16:51 · answer #3 · answered by Jungle R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At 13 girls and guys have so much stress with school an discovering dating that sometimes its hard to act maturely. When I was 15 my mother told me a great piece of advice, " In 5 years, do you think any of this will make a difference?"
If she isn't into you anymore, don't stress. She's a great chick and all, but you'll meet many great girls. Use this time to work on yourself. I know many people will say this, but I was there once and its true.... you're young and you have your whole life ahead of you.... don't worry.
Good Luck!!!
2006-08-23 11:14:52 · answer #4 · answered by Katie A 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It seems like this girl is more confused then you are.
I would suggest giving her time to get things straight because she's telling some people one thing and others an entirely different thing.
I understand you have feelings for her but what is best for you is to just let it go and see what happens from there.
If she cares about you the way her mom says then she'll approach you.
2006-08-23 11:11:58 · answer #5 · answered by ♪Msz. Nena♫ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think she really likes u but she is afraid that if she has romantic relationship with u and it doesn't work out that it would ruin the friendship she has with you obviously your friendship is very important to her. I think u should give her some time without putting any pressure on her. just be her friend for a while and see what happens. you are both very young and have plenty of time! wish u the best of luck!
2006-08-23 11:15:04 · answer #6 · answered by rosie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she means everything in the world to you then I say keep the friendship going. It may still be hard but it sounds like she really likes you. You guys are young. I would say that if she continues to ignore you you should go fishin! You have so much ahead of you! If she decides to come around you will definately be the first to know!
2006-08-23 11:22:20 · answer #7 · answered by shoogydoo99 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that you should give her some space. it sounds like her mum is trying to let you down gently and that her friends are telling you the truth. you should focus your energies on another girl. keep the girl you like as a friend and let her come to you when she sorts out her feelings and decides what she wants. it doesn't sound like you did anything wrong. good luck.
2006-08-23 11:16:57 · answer #8 · answered by burn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try and be her friend first again first, then as the friendship progresses...see how things go and work with that. if things dont work out thats life, a friendship is better than nothing at all right?
2006-08-23 11:15:41 · answer #9 · answered by sara 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should never force it . juss let it happen if u want it to happen the it will let her kind of know
but not too much. show her that u would treat her right first tho by being a good friend then maybe shell change her mind
2006-08-23 11:13:33 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋