hey! i like this guy whos alot older than me. im 15, hes 23. at first i was really grossed out but ive known him for a few months and i really started to like him & i havent really liked someone in over a year now. i really feel like i can connect with him because we've faced alot of the same issues at home & with society. i completely hated the idea at first about being with him but now im really starting to fall for him.i tried to keep away but he understands me better than anyone and i love talking to him.i think im ready to be with him regaurdless what people say abt us but im gonna draw a boundry.i refuse to kiss him on the lips until im 18 so its legal. right now all ill do is kiss him on the cheek.hes the one who came up with the idea too. now i feel like im ready to be with him because he doesnt just want me to do stuff with him. he respects me and my age. what do you think? is it okay?
2006-08-23 10:56:37 · 23 answers · asked by umm hi<333 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i am 43 and my wife is 24 so it dont matter you cant put a age limit on love
2006-08-23 11:15:01 · answer #1 · answered by firefightingexpert 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Age is nothing but a number as long as it is legal. 23 is a big number from 15 right you may think you want the same thing but you don't. Enjoy being young and in high school because somethings in life you cant do over. Stick to Juniors and Seniors.23 and 15 Not safe and too much trouble If he really respected your age you wouldn't be talking
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2006-08-23 11:09:39 · answer #2 · answered by caramelcutie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well of course. At least ya'll know what is legal and have the boundary of what to do and what not to do. But why did you think it was gross that he was so much older? I tell ya, if you don't stay with this guy and find someone else, always go for the older ones, they are usually more mature and aren't always about the sex like the guys around your age. Just don't go for anyone too old like in their 60's or so then thats gold digger territory. But enjoy whomever you are with no matter the age as long as you have the right reasons for being together.
2006-08-23 11:02:58 · answer #3 · answered by Bloody Kisses 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly hun, he's too old for you right now at the moment. If you were 20 and he was 28 then that would be ok. But you are at an age where you are still very young and really haven't understood relationships as a whole. This guy is on a whole different platform than you and thinks at a different level. Meaning that his expectations are different than yours. You should just remain friends and go out with people in your age group at the moment. In a few years, you'll be ready for him.
2006-08-23 11:00:27 · answer #4 · answered by jeneration Y 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok... first of all you have your entire life to date men. There is no reason you should be serious with a grown 23 year old man. He should realize this and not try to pressure you to be more than just friends. It is fine if you two talk and stay friends. But anything more than that would be wrong. Sometimes its seems like older men understand young women better than the boys your age, but beware. Some men will say what you want to hear just to take advantage of you. You sound like a smart girl and I would hate to hear that you acted with your heart and not your head. Be smart and just keep it friendly for now!
Good Luck!!!
2006-08-23 11:01:57 · answer #5 · answered by Katie A 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If a guy's older, I would think it would work out. I dated a guy a decade younger than me, Elijah Weisberg, and found although he was 26...he had the mentality of a 16 year old. So because you're female, you will naturally be more emotionally mature than the man. You should still go your speed. If he's wanting more, than he should find someone else. You'll have the rest of your life to get screwed over with guys.
2006-08-23 11:00:33 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well what you have going at the moment i guess is fine. But believe me your going to get a lot of the wrong attention. plus if hes no going to be even able to kiss you for 3 years theres a 99.9% possibility that he will cheat on you. and remember 23 year olds have very different views on things and life in general so watch out. i wouldnt advise it but thats just me love is strange if thats where it leads you then i guess just go with it but BE CAREFUL!! thats a very big age difference!
2006-08-23 11:01:01 · answer #7 · answered by ♥ Sunshine ♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Excuse me you're 15 and he's 23 and also you're both on an same adulthood factor. No way lady. it quite is B.S. you're saying so that you'll be able to date him. you ought to no longer be relationship a 23 3 hundred and sixty 5 days old guy. you're lacking alot of the exciting stuff 15 to 18 3 hundred and sixty 5 days old do. do not date him.
2016-11-27 01:18:29 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Any guy of any age is only looking for sex. No its not ok until you are 18 and even then its only kinda ok. I dont care if you think he is respecting you because he is not respecting you if he thinks its ok for you to kiss him on the cheek! He should not be allowing you to kiss him at all, he should not even be talking with you. He is a pedaphile and you need to stay away from him. Now.
2006-08-23 11:01:07 · answer #9 · answered by ziggunerin 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
half plus 7 rule. if your 40 u can date a 27year old or older, if your 23 17 or 18 is the youngest u can date.
2006-08-23 10:58:17 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know what u r talking about i tend to like guys who r older than me. Age is just a number.
2006-08-23 11:02:33 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋