My bf of the last 8 months does not satisfy me in the bedroom at all. I have not had one orgasim. I don't want to cheat n him but he is leaving no choice. I have given him pointers on how to please me but he keeps missing the spot... I have played with myself in front of him so he could see what I am doing to get off.. Can you please help a sister out.. what else is there to do? Singed Confused and frustrated....
2006-08-23 10:54:39 · 17 answers · asked by Shonda 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
OUCH! I maybe hes not into what you are just try different things. if you are telling him what to do maybe hes not into it. instead of telling him what to do just do it. If is oral then instead of letting him do it. get on top and do it that way. some men might get turned off by theire partenr telling them how to do things in the middle of it all. or even try watch a few MOVIES together maybe he will see how its done that way. Play mokey see monkey do. It's fun!!
2006-08-23 11:00:04 · answer #1 · answered by super mummies life 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Then move on, anyone that you feel MAKES you cheat you dont need to be with. Communication and show and tell didnt work, so the next choice is obvious!!! Cut that zero and get a hero
2006-08-23 17:57:35 · answer #2 · answered by voluptoustaureanfemale 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you are being too nice about it. Tell him this is the spot and this is what I like. Write it down if ya have too. lol Don't be shy. Your missing out and he should care enough to make sure that doesn't happen. Good luck.
2006-08-23 18:01:04 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just need to sit down with him and tell him exactly what to do exactly i mean cause obviously hes clueless..... just make sure your not mean about it just say well you know this really feels good and stuff like that it might work. But sit down and make sure hes taking in the new info and not just doing it just "cause"
good luck
2006-08-23 17:57:16 · answer #4 · answered by ♥ Sunshine ♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most men just don't want to take the time to learn. If he doesn't get it, buy a little toy to join you in the bedroom and let him know if he doesn't want to learn then someone will take his place.
2006-08-23 18:00:30 · answer #5 · answered by SEXY 818 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try telling your b/f to sit on a couch with half of his body hanging off of it. Then get on top and lean your body all the way back with him holding your arms and you holding his. If you do it that way i think you will have one. Hope i helped.
2006-08-23 18:09:13 · answer #6 · answered by Engaged And Inlove 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump him Now. I would be very happy to give you what you need baby. Just drop me a line and we'll get together. Oh Yeah!!!!
2006-08-23 17:59:04 · answer #7 · answered by mrharderson 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe it's not him.... maybe it's you. Have you started taking any new medicines? or have you been under some stress? If you worry about it too long, then it's not going to happen.
2006-08-23 17:58:01 · answer #8 · answered by beck o 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the sex is not good and you are only dating, just dump him and find someone who is better.
2006-08-23 17:58:06 · answer #9 · answered by physandchemteach 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should be dating a minimum of five men a week
2006-08-23 17:57:06 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋