Ok, his ex-fiance have no respect for me whatsoever. I have 2-children and she's constantly feeding him negativity in reference to me looking for a daddy for my children. She still loves him and want to be with him. She left him and moved to another city, but when she found out he was seeing someone that's when she started acting like she love him so much. I feel uncomfortable with hiim talking to her, they have no children so theres no reason they should still talk. She sent me a very nasty e-mail and copied him on it as well. He don't see why it's a problem, if she calls every once in a while to say hi. He says he don't call her she's the one that does the calling. Should I be ok with her calling whenver she does or should he understand where I'm coming from?
2006-08-23 10:22:39 · 3 answers · asked by me 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He should understand where your coming from. He cant make her stop calling but he can at least tell her he doesn't want her to call. You do have to wonder why he still wants to be in contact with her though.
2006-08-23 10:26:32 · answer #1 · answered by JustMe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men see things differently .He probably gets an ego-boost knowing his ex still wants him,and that he has 2 women fighting for him. You need to let him know that if he wants to be with you,he needs to stop his ex from having any contact with you or him. But,I have to say,that she sounds pretty spiteful,and she will probably continue to harrass you because she knows she's causing trouble. Stand up for yourself. Make an ultimatum. If he doesn't do what you ask,get out of the relationship. You have 2 children to worry about,and the way things are in this world today,you can never be too careful.
2006-08-23 10:41:40 · answer #2 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to talk to both of them. and if they interupt you, say " hey i am the one talking. I need you to listen"
2006-08-23 10:26:36 · answer #3 · answered by Ashley 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋