I've been seeing a girl now for 4 months, she is fantastic and i have fallen in love with her. Is this the most stupid thing to do and should i be morecare full with my feelings and emotions.
2006-08-23 10:11:39 · 14 answers · asked by jo_raz_1 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Go w/ your gut..and see where it takes you. If it doesn't work out, remember....It is better to have loved and lost, than to have never loved at all. It is all about PASSION baby. Life it too short. Love is what makes the world go around.
2006-08-23 10:44:45 · answer #1 · answered by bobbie e 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best thing about real love is is when you can go out for a meal and enjoy the meal and if you like not say anything to each other at all. When your so comfortable with someone else you feel no pressure to be anyone else but yourself. Watch older couples in restaurants, they mostly sit on the same side of the table and not facing each other. Why? Because they been in love for so lone that its totally unconscious ofr them, they look out into the world with the same pair of eyes.
Okay your only 4 months in but the lesson is the same, dont be so self conscious about what you should be doing or saying. If the real you is not acceptable to this person then your far better finding that out sooner rather than later. As soon as you become anxious about losing this person or whats supposed to happen now you will lose it, mark my words. Just let things be.
2006-08-23 11:07:34 · answer #2 · answered by galenvanbrok 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Awwwwwww.....Its not stupid, its very sweet..
This is my opinion..
If you're aged between 12-30 don't do it. You are too young - you should play the field i.e. see other girls and not settle down yet. Men/Women will never be content unless they've sowed their wild oats (I'm referring to most people, not all - so those who are reading don't get offended). So don't rush into anything, cos after a few years you'll get bored and wonder 'what the hell have I done - and wish u hadn't settled down so young).
Good luck whatever you decide :)
2006-08-23 10:20:50 · answer #3 · answered by scorpion queen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it's great that you are sure enough of your feelings to be able to say you love her, i also think she would be stupid to let you go, there's not enough people like you who care enough to show how they feel. Also you can't be careful about the way you feel, it just happens. Good for you and good luck i hope everything goes how you want it to.
2006-08-23 10:41:04 · answer #4 · answered by Cheryl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A person cannot help how he/she feels. I've always said that honesty is the best policy. Be open with your feelings. If she feels the same way, you will know.
2006-08-23 10:15:00 · answer #5 · answered by rightys_wife 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes wait for the fifth or sixth month before being too open about them.
2006-08-23 10:13:38 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe u should just try to be cautious. a lot of ppl will prob say after 4months its not love but only u know that answer, its a strong emotion.
2006-08-23 10:14:40 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you trust her, talk to her, be mates, tell her how u feel.... dont tell her straigh away i love u, but wait till its the right time.
2006-08-23 10:18:13 · answer #8 · answered by bunnyBoo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe try to hint to her to see if she feels the same way about you. if not you may be in for some disappointment.
2006-08-23 10:26:08 · answer #9 · answered by benjamin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think its sweet and that ur gf should b so lucky 2 have u and u should hold onto her as long as u can
2006-08-23 10:13:57 · answer #10 · answered by alli 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋