Do you think God would put two people together just so they can break apart?

Question

If you know that the relationship you're in this moment was a result of God's will... and you're both sure in that, since it has helped both of you spiritually grow alot in eachother and in Christ... do you think God would break you two apart afterward? Do you think God would make two people learn about true love with one another for a whole year, and then break them apart some time in the future? I know for a fact that if God intends me to actually meet and marry someone else in the future, He would be depriving that future husband a huge chunk of my heart that would be left with my Christian boyfriend right now... if that indeed is what God does... Any thoughts?

Answer 1

Therefore what God has joined together, let man not
separate.'" (Matthew 19:4-6).

Answer 2

First of all, if God decides you're supposed to meet and marry someone else in the future - trust me, by the time you break up with your present boyfriend there won't be any huge chunk of heart left behind. Break-ups don't occur until all huge chunks of heart are returned to their rightful owner.

Next, some people question how much involvement God may have when it comes to putting people together and the things that break them apart.

Then, I think it is entirely possible that God would put people together for a while, let the whole things serve its purpose, and then let the people move on - and maybe even bring a better person into a relationship that is supposed to last.

Sometimes, too, I think maybe God just likes to mess with people's minds in order to show them that they never "know anything for a fact" when it comes to God.

In answer to your question, sure - God puts people together just so they break apart all the time. All you can do is believe for now that its forever (while keeping a separate bank account in case you have to ever leave), assume it is forever, and be surprised later if it isn't. There just may be far more learned from breakups than you would ever learn from any relationship, so if it happens just gather up what's left of your chunk of heart and move on, knowing that your belief is that its God's will. There will probably not be much left of after it has been crushed, broken, mangled. or stretched to the limit.

Answer 3

Truth is God is about understanding. He wants his people to be understanding of everything that life has to offer. Not through prior knowledge entirely as much as wisdom from observing and learning. You must have a loving experience to know what it feels like. But never neglect your first love which should be your Creator. People tend to place the person they love above their Creator and this is dangerous because God is a jealous God. Proven in the time of Moshe or Moses. So yes he may have you break up in a situation that he is not getting enough attention out of. But if God was to do such a thing he would definitely prepare a better more consuming love ahead. So don't worry because the only thing in this world to fear is God.

Answer 4

If you have given that much of your heart away, that was not God's will. Many times when you are young and in love everything "feels right," and you even believe your relationship has made you "grow spiritually." I offer to you that perhaps you grew spiritually in spite of your relationship, not because of it.

You should only give your heart to your spouse. If you are giving it away before then, the relationship is not right. For you and your future husband I hope that you did not do anything sexually inappropriate with this guy.

Answer 5

Sounds more like karma to me.

It also sounds like your relationship is ending and you're pissed off about that, and are blaming god. Which is fine. Perhaps that will set you off down another path - perhaps the path that you're ultimately meant to follow.

Perhaps fate brought you together to open your eyes to a new way of life.

ON SECOND THOUGHT.....

I think you should ask this question of someone you trust. Or a therapist. Some of the answers out here are downright scary!

Answer 6

How was it in the beginning? God made Eve for Adam and even after the fall they stuck together.

Now in our very corrupt society, couples, "Christians" or not, end up in divorce.

God doesn't put people together only to tear them apart. People put people together thinking it's God's will...only to be disappointed later because it wasn't God's will and then blame God.

Think about it!

Answer 7

Of course god would not tear people apart if he put them together. Which is just more evidence that he doesn't put people together to begin with. People come together on their own, for their own reasons, and they break apart for similar reasons.

Answer 8

Wow you are very insane. You should learn that it is up to you to live your life and make decisions and there is not a spook in the sky to help you. However it is clear you are to cowardly, weak, stupid and perverted to change. You are beyond hope and should be put to sleep.

No offense intended but offensive people are often offended..



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Answer 9

If you have your faith in God, then you must trust that what has happened has happened for a reason. Possibly if you believe you were put together, you were meant to share that special period of your life. Cherish what you had, remember what you had, but have faith that there is someone else better for you.

Answer 10

God doesn't play the "mating game." That's just chance and occurances. Nothing more.

People "just meet." Name ONCE in the Bible besides Adam and Eve where God mated 2 people!

Answer 11

My mother believes that every couple isn't put together by God....she believes some people don't wait for God's hand in their lives and they end up with the wrong person.

***not my belief...I'm an atheist.