and dont say "it will heal over time you just gotta give it time" or "it will never heal you just have to move on"
2006-08-23 10:02:29 · 46 answers · asked by </3 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You've TRIED drinking, dear, not tryed.
2006-08-23 10:08:01 · answer #1 · answered by BlueSea 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋
get out of the house, occupy your time with friends. Find stuff that can take your mind of thinking about it. It is hard and might take a long time. It will get better.
It's hard at first because there is a lot of confusion and hurt, it's ok to cry and cry and cry some more, or scream into a pillow. Let it out, don't bottle it in. Just know it will all work out. TRUST ME, I am going through the same thing and have been for about 3 weeks and I thought I would never get out of bed. It's still hard and I still cry, but it is getting better.
Good luck
2006-08-23 10:06:39 · answer #2 · answered by starlet_80 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You cannot heal a heartbreak because you heart doesn't literally break, but it's an emmotion or feeling. To heal that basically just don't think so much of that person. Try doing something you like, for instance jogging or playing sports something to get your mind off of it. If anything fails, hollar at me. :D
2006-08-23 10:05:39 · answer #3 · answered by toy_00song 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My ex and I broke up after 5 months and he was my first love (I'm 22 so it wasn't puppy love). This happened ~3 yrs ago. I made the mistake of hooking up with him for over a year after that. Everytime it broke my heart and I'd cry later. I finally met a different guy and fell in love with him. It still hurts to think about my ex but I love my boyfriend and would never want to be with my ex. I think a broken heart never truly heals. It just fades...
2006-08-23 10:04:42 · answer #4 · answered by krd12 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all stop the drinking, dont kill yourself b/c what someone else did to you. the best thing is to move on to the next guy, but just don't put much into it as you did with the first untill you know this one is serious and if this one is really serious, then over a period of time your forget about the one that broke your heart, i always say a heart can't be broken, but your feelings for this person can make it hurt
2006-08-23 10:14:02 · answer #5 · answered by valentine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off, trying to dull the pain with drugs or alcohol isn't the answer. It only makes things worse.
You need to keep yourself busy and find the things that bring joy and happiness into your life. Spending quality time with family and friends is great, but you may also want to try doing some volunteer work with people or animals. It's amazing how, just giving your time to someone in need, can fill your heart with so much love and happiness. It fills that void that you are feeling, and who knows, you just might meet someone wonderful in the process!
Good Luck!
2006-08-23 10:09:31 · answer #6 · answered by rightys_wife 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to try to forget about ur ex go out to a club have some fun go out with friends put on ur best clothes with a dash of make up fix up ur hair real nice just treat ur self. Let me tell u some thing ur now single now is the time to pick choose and refuse guys but be care-ful and smile keep ur mind off every problem. Trust me when ur ex sees u with a next guy he will be jealous and he will be begging for u when he sees how u have bounced right back on ur feet.Be care-ful when choosing a next bf.GOOD LUCK, CHEER UP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-08-23 10:26:19 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My advice to you is to not dwell in your sorrow. Get out there and do something that makes you happy and takes your mind off of it. If you find yourself thinking about it then just dive into something. Go out with your friends, take in a funny movie, or go shopping. Whatever you do just get busy. Do this every time you feel this way... soon it will be the past. Good luck.
2006-08-23 10:09:22 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should never ever ever relate to drinking if your depressed...alcohol is a depressent and can really make you want him more...your gonna have to just have girl time and family time and start caring about other things that are more important right now...look to the future forget the passed, whats done is done, so make life last.
2006-08-23 10:05:20 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pray. Spend time with close friends, don't think about your heartbreak. Take a long vacation to somewhere you've always wanted to go. Write a poem. Take a kickboxing class.
2006-08-23 10:04:22 · answer #10 · answered by latitude 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that is a damn good question. i am trying to figure out the same thing. i've done the drinking thing too and that only works for so long. i wish i had an answer because then we could both be over it. i guess we have to keep on searching for an answer. if you find one let me know. i just broke up with my bf of four years. and i found out that he cheated on me for a while. life sucks that way.
2006-08-23 10:05:21 · answer #11 · answered by agraat23 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋