this guy im in love with buys me anything i need he takes everywhere with him takes me to fancy restaurant everything i say.but he's with another girl i dont know if i'm doing enough to make him love me although i try sometimes to be myself.what do i need to do to win this guys heart?
2006-08-23 09:58:59 · 23 answers · asked by fancyfacelover 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
This guy will do nothing but break your heart. Break it off with him, get over him and find someone who loves you as much as you love them. Or better yet find out why you don't love yourself enough to be in a healthy relationship. Also look past what they are giving you financially and look at what they are giving you emotionally. Plus if a guy is cheating on his girlfriend with you, then he will cheat on you with god knows who.
2006-08-23 10:04:17 · answer #1 · answered by gazinmcbane 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Be yourself. By that I mean be at ease when you are with him and don't go all psycho clingy/needy on him. Make sure you guys have a great time whenever you are together, that way he will only remember the good feelings whenever he thinks of you. Where as he's gonna have good times AND bad times with his gf because they see each other more often (probably more bad than good if he's seeing other girls on the side). So by not being with him all the time, you actually have an edge here. Just remember to be patient, and don't be pushy.
Meanwhile, what you should do for yourself in order to be able to keep your cool with him, is to keep meeting and going out with other guys, that you find interesting, even if it's just "as friends". That way, you won't be too obsessed with this dude and get tunnel vision in terms of your options, and ended up scaring the dude away. Also, by keeping your options open, you might just allow yourself to be swept away by someone else who's nice to you, buy you stuff, take you out to restaurants AND single.
Sure maybe you only like guys who "buys me anything i need he takes everywhere with him takes me to fancy restaurant everything i say" but I am not here to judge.lol. Listen to me and you will be an even better player with no weaknesses. Good luck girl.
2006-08-23 10:06:50 · answer #2 · answered by Lyon D. 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You can't make him love you. Period. And if he's in a relationship with another girl, think how you're going to feel if he's ever in a relationship with YOU and taking someone else (like YOU) out to fancy restaurants and buying them things. Would you like that? No? Then you're not going to like this guy in the long run. If he's doing these things for you while with another girl, then he will do them for other women while with you.
Unfortunately, you're stuck, sweetie. Your options are to try to be a homewrecking witch by throwing yourself at him (not attractive) OR to love him from afar, and back off, and hope that his current relationship breaks up without your help.
2006-08-23 10:02:48 · answer #3 · answered by kimberhands 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You're not going to like this answer,but here goes.
Why would you want to be with a guy who already has a girlfriend but spends a lot of time with another girl,and buys her anything she wants? Don't you think that at some point he would do the same to you if you two got together?
2006-08-23 10:18:51 · answer #4 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm goint to tell you something, stop being a stank h** and get your own man! It's not cool what you are doing, "why couldn't you fall in love with someone that wasn't in a relationship. Don't try to ruin another girls relationship?
2006-08-23 10:06:26 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your wasting your time. If he's hooked up then leave him alone. If he's hooked up and he's messing around with you, then he's not a good guy. If he dumps this other girl for you, then you can count the days until he dumps you for the next one.
Move on. Find someone who is available and comes without the baggage.
2006-08-23 10:00:19 · answer #6 · answered by perfecttiming1 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Let me guess he's married that's what you mean when you say "he's with another girl" LOL.....either except what you are...his mistress....and milk him for everything he's worth because he's doing the same to you darlin' don't thinks he's not...if he REALLY loved you he would leave her...but he's not and he's BUYING your affection. So go for it hun...just make sure he keeps paying to to play. Or leave him. Those are you options. Personally I would go with the latter.
2006-08-23 10:02:18 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
men will be men and some of them just don't know how to say it's over don't push him away if he wants to be with you he will just give it some time am not saying be with him for years and he's still with her that means he wants hos cake and eat it to with ice cream i have been in this situation and that's not good it hurts but hold strong at the end it was only me and him but they still same to stray
2006-08-23 10:02:54 · answer #8 · answered by ♥*♥Bahamian Gal♥*♥ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This guy is also in love with u ?
because if so he would not want to see u hurt right?
do it pain you to know that there is someone else.
2006-08-23 10:14:48 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Steal him. Guys, or i would at least, like girls to fight for me. A cat fight!!! That is the ANSWER!! Fight the girl for him, yeah that would be awesome, but wouldn't happen.
More seriously, tell him you really like him and would like to be more than friends. I still prefer the first way though. lol
2006-08-23 10:02:42 · answer #10 · answered by meflyfaster 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋