Yesterday he said. Although he logged in he has said nothing no message. I waited online for him last night but he didn't appear. Whats going on?
2006-08-23 09:45:52 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
maybe he is busy don't push it you will scare him away
2006-08-23 09:47:28 · answer #1 · answered by Jimbo23 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he got cold feet. Maybe his little brother is online using his ID. Maybe you should think twice about meeting a total stranger in a place that may not be safe.
You have no idea who you are communicating with when you are online. They can tell you anything and send you a photo of anyone they what you to think they are. I cannot stress enough that what you are considering is hugely risky no matter what your age or experience.
Take precautions and meet in a very public, well-lit, heavily populated place that you are familiar with and where people know you. I don't think that people shouldn't meet after chatting online, it's current, useful technology. But BE SMART, cautious and very careful. Take someone with you and let someone know when and where you are going and when you will be back. If you can, take down the license plate from the car he drives up in and send it to your cell phone via text msg, or call it into your friends voice mail.
Just think, he's suddenly realizing that the same could be true of you. He only knows who he thinks he communicated with, but could have been anyone. Maybe that's why he got cold feet. Or-even though he claimed to have been your age and driving a cool car, maybe he's really only twelve and couldn't find a ride into town.
Proceed with caution for your own safety and well being.
2006-08-23 09:58:28 · answer #2 · answered by wibbsite 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My advice is that unless he gets back to you very soon with a really good excuse, forget him. Out of town romances are very difficult. Please make sure you are safe. let someone know at all times where you are. As soon as you meet him, [if you do], get on the phone with someone you know and describe him, his car, license etc. Be careful!There are a lot of predators out there. Meet in a safe place. Make sure he doesn't follow you home. Even if he is not dangerous, he may be irresponsible. After all he is not getting back to you.
2006-08-23 09:58:44 · answer #3 · answered by linda c 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you tried messaging him? Im a pretty blunt person,I would just ask him straight out. Hey were you serious about meeting or what. If thats not an option I,would give him one more day and then Id make other plans. Dont men drive you crazy?
2006-08-23 09:52:27 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He changed his mind about meeting you. He would not forget because if you were that interesting to him he would think about you the whole day and wouldn't be able to wait so long without talking to you etc.
Sorry...don't wait up for him. He'll come back if he wants you. Don't ask him anything, you will look desperate for his attention.
2006-08-23 09:52:36 · answer #5 · answered by Natalie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you ever heard of serial killers like Ted Bundy, or maybe Jack the ripper.
If you are going to meet someone that you have never seen on their say-so, I will read about you next week, or maybe on a milk carton----------uh wait, maybe you are the serial killer!!!
2006-08-23 09:52:08 · answer #6 · answered by theodore r 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can meet you on Saturday. I've got a party to attend on Sundayt though.
2006-08-23 09:48:20 · answer #7 · answered by Jet 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is most likely blowing you off, hopefully something different came up, but dont sit around waiting for him
2006-08-23 09:48:46 · answer #8 · answered by jeanjean 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, darling, quit being passive aggressive, You can start an email or an IM to him, too, you know. If you want to chat, start talking, he doens't have to do all the work! He could have been busy, too.
2006-08-23 09:49:38 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He has chikened out. Maybe he is not exactly as he described himself and is now worried about your response ( and getting busted)
2006-08-23 09:48:04 · answer #10 · answered by Me 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys do this crap all the time. When this happens to me, I just assume he's "just not that into me" and move on. Invest your time in someone who is worth it. :)
2006-08-23 09:48:04 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋