m only 15 so i need some advice from real women. Me and my boi got into a fight an hour ago. I called him all kinds of mean names. I calledhim gay and i said that he has a small weiner. Then he got pissed and punched me in the nose. It hurt a lot. I asked my mom about it and she said that guys hit gurls because they love them. Does that mean he love sme a lot and he's the one? I feel really bad that i made him mad and i want to make it up to him. I don't want to lose my soulmate
2006-08-23 09:44:17 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
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2006-08-23 09:45:40 · answer #1 · answered by East Bay Punk 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
He may love you and you love him back. But both your actions
were immature and harmful. Never ever allow yourself to be
in a position where your partner abuses you in any
circumstance... However, in this case, you precipiated
the event to unfold, because you caused a reaction from
him by calling him names and such which aroused his anger.
If either one of you are angered by the other partner's actions,
the next step for you both is to confront each other. And be completely REAL with how you feel.
Lastly, tt's important to be completely honest and real with
YOURSELF and your emotions before you enter a relationship
or form a partnership with somebody. Because if you allow
yourself to be betrayed by denying your own feelings of what
happened, you are letting your partner/your mother to make
choices for you.
So how do YOU truly feel about what happened?
Do you feel that you deserved such reaction after what you've said?
2006-08-23 17:03:52 · answer #2 · answered by ohdeejay 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK well you mother has lost her damn mind, if a man really loves then he would not hit you, a man should really feel like a low life if he puts his hand on a woman, you need to tell this guy that you were upset when you said all these mean things to him but you didn't mean it, now as far as staying with him, that's your decision, but its like they say a player will always be a player, so a woman beater will always be a woman beater.
2006-08-23 16:49:32 · answer #3 · answered by wichita25falls 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol, okay for one, when you get into a fight with your boyfriend. Dont call him names, try to hold it all back cause he WILL hold it against you for a long a$$ time. and your MOM told you that when a guy hits you he loves you?? Maybe he thought you were talking about a playing around hit, if he honestly hit you hard in your face you need to leave him, cause it could get worse or slow it down a little bit or talk to him about it. im not saying he will get worse... Just talk to him, tell him your sorry and stuff..
2006-08-23 16:48:00 · answer #4 · answered by STFUbeezy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO THAT DOES NOT MEAN HE LOVES YOU! If he's hitting you he is not your soulmate or anything else but a bastard! You are very young you have plenty of time to find your "soulmate" don't be in such a rush you have plenty of fun years ahead of you. As for your mom, you should tell HER hitting is not love but abuse!
2006-08-23 16:53:59 · answer #5 · answered by Pildi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No man shouid hit a women, doesnt matter what you say to them. Im shocked that your mum said that. That isnt love its him being in control believe me ive been through it for 5 years when i was 20. Ime 37 now. Leave him there.
suzanne x
2006-08-23 17:03:01 · answer #6 · answered by suzanne39 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Little girl, you have so much to learn about life. No man should hit a woman, ever. Your mom is so misinformed. I know you're only 15, but you do sound pretty immature.
2006-08-23 16:49:44 · answer #7 · answered by jen 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO! My husband and I have been together since age 15. He has never hit me and that is because he loves me. Any guy who hits a girl is a loser and has alot of issues get out while you can. My sister was with a guy who hit her and it almost killed her. She is now with a man who loves her and would never hit her.
2006-08-23 16:50:29 · answer #8 · answered by fabinnie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hahaha, talk about a dysfunctional relationship. NEVER TELL A MAN HE HAS A SMALL PENIS!! its something you just dont do to us. on the other hand, if he hit you, i would never speak to him again. i have a some bad things done to me or said to me by women, but i have never hit one, wanted to, but never did. you hurt him pretty bad by saying what you said. whether or not hes the one, i doubt it if he punched you. what the hell is wrong with our youth these days?
2006-08-23 16:48:21 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your mum is wrong. If he cared about you he wouldn't want to hurt you, especially physcially. The guy is rash and abrasive. Dump him and move on or end up with a disfigured face in the future. The choice is yours
2006-08-23 16:49:20 · answer #10 · answered by itssohottoday 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No one should ever hit anyone and no you are 15 there are plenty of other soulmates
2006-08-23 16:46:40 · answer #11 · answered by Jimbo23 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋