And get progresively fatter as the months and years pass?
2006-08-23
09:43:07
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Kabulshit K
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I'm just saying, because working mothers are so industrious. Most of the time, their flats are very proper, their children better kept and mindful, and they are more ambitious. Stay at home mothers have no excuse not to clean and keep the home, but they often forgo these chores.They are all usually fat. I'm just making an obsevation.
2006-08-23
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update #1
Miwife...Go suck on a ho ho. Or, did you quit sucking on the ho ho to give that assanine, pathetic spill you just gave? I am not a citizen of your country, so what freedom is your blasted husband fighting for me for? Lazy trollop. Go do something constructive, like wax your legs.
2006-08-23
10:44:19 ·
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Well the general feeling in this house hold is your a dick.
2006-08-23 09:50:56
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answered by animpalways 2
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Alright....chew on this for a minute. I am A STAY AT HOME MOTHER. I left my job (I was a military police officer in the untied states air force, veteran of operation iraqi freedom) to be a stay at home mother. I was working 13-14 hour days and opposite of my husband. I saw him maybe 2 hours a night. To be a good mother I HAD to quit my job. Now my baby is 2 months old, I'm not fat never was I worked out through pregnancy and I work out every day to remain a hottie for my husband. My husband doe's No housework and dinner is always waiting for him when he gets home. He always have clean clothes and a ironed uniform for work. I wait on him hand and foot because I love him and he works hard. He helps with the baby because he loves her and wants to be involved not because he has to or because I'm lazy. I do all the grocery shopping, I charge his phone for him and make sure he is not lacking anything in the bedroom. I also look VERY yummy when he takes me out in public. Now women don't get me wrong....I am not his slave by any means. I have designer handbags and sunglasses. I wear a 6,000 dollar rings on my hand and I get whatever I wan't. I Wear pretty clothes, always have my toe nails painted a pretty shade of pink. Now you need to think before you go around stereotyping women. By the way I haven't ate a ho-ho since I was in middle school. Just because some woman are fat and lazy doesn't mean we all are . Thats like saying "are all men as dumb as you?"
2006-08-24 09:12:04
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answered by mrs.degoey 2
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Well I am a work at home mom. I had a full-time job that I was lucky enough to bring home with me so I could raise my daughter myself instead of placing her in daycare. My boyfriend works outside the home and we share cooking and cleaning responsibilities. If the baby needs extra care for whatever reason, the housework can wait, and he can help with dinner when he gets home. If I could afford not to work at all I would. I don't see anything wrong with staying home to raise your own children, that's worth more money than you could ever get from a job. Why would I want to let someone with different ideals and morals than I have influence my daughter through most of her waking hours??
You are an immature baby looking for attention and you got it. Good for you. Go suck your thumb and watch teletubbies and pray that you are sterile and cannot reproduce.
2006-08-24 03:25:00
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answered by all_my_armour_falling_down 4
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What an ***. I'm guessing that you are married and expect your wife to raise perfect kids, keep a spotless house, and be your sex slave every night while you don't give her a break now and then. Didn't like that, did you?
I am a SAHM and I keep my house as well as I can while not just caring for my two children but spending time with them and teaching them. Sure, I could just let my 2 year old play by himself all day while I scrub the house but that only teaches him that Mom is a housekeeper and nothing else. I know many other SAHMs who keep a sparkling house and some who do not. I also know working moms who do it all - but most of them have a professional to clean their house (I'm talking about the ones I know). And guess what, these working moms - my guess is that their husbands realizes how much work there is for them to do and they PITCH IN!
Personally, I wouldn't be able to get a job that would pay me enough to be worth the cost of daycare for my son while being able to get home in time for my daughter to come home from school. Me working would be a drain on the family economy. My husband likes it that I am the one raising our children and not some stranger. Also, since I am the one paying the household bills I am the one researching ways to save money and even invest it, too. That is something I would not have time for if I was working outside of my home.
chyna - your just trying to cause trouble. Not everyone has relatives around. My mother is handicapped, my father is dead, my sister works two jobs and my in-laws live 2000 miles away. Not everyone has free help. Consider yourself lucky if you do.
2006-08-23 10:02:54
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answered by AlongthePemi 6
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I'm a stay at home mom, but I also work at home. I don't know where you live, but the stay at home moms I know work very hard to maintain their households and raise strong, independent children and take care of their husbands. And most husbands I know want their wives to stay home. That way, they don't have to worry about taking off if the kids are sick, etc.
I don't eat ho hos, nor am I fat ... and I make as much or more money than my husband! And I find your observation very insulting and narrow minded!
My children want me home. They didn't like it when I worked outside the home and they had to go to a babysitter. It takes a lot of work to raise children and take care of the house.
Grow up!
2006-08-23 10:04:09
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answered by Lady J 4
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i am a stay @ home mom.
i think if you want to understand what we do all day, i would trade jobs with your wife, just for a week. but start from the beginning with a newborn.
no sleep, changing diapers all day, taking care of the child, teaching him/her how to do the basic tasks, forgetting to take a shower everyday because you cant find enough hours in the day to do the laundry, be your husbands personal maid, cook dinner, grocery shop, clean the house, dishes, make time for personal life-wait whats that?- we cannot just pick up and "go out with our buddies" w/o the kids. just because we gained a little weight after toting around your child for 10 mos...yes that 40 weeks. then spending endless hours pushing this miracle out of our cooters. and you come home to criticize on how we look like whales...now tell me "Mr. ho-ho eating wife" does your wife deserve that ho-ho? i believe so.
oh, and i supported my husband for the first 3 yrs, while going to school getting my Bachelors degree. so no, i don't think of MYSELF as money hungry...but it does help having a good supportive husband that lets you stay home with the kids to bond and nurture while he becomes the sugar daddy. :)
2006-08-25 05:54:46
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answered by Anonymous
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I really thought that today's generation had a more enlightened view than those observations. At one time it was called Bon-Bons, not ho-hos . Now that I have quit laughing, here's my answer....
Not all stay at home moms past or present, are ho ho eating, fat, lazy , money grubbing, ignorant women. In fact more times than not in my observations, they are pillars of the community, good mothers, stay fit, and their husbands respect them and the jobs they do.
That dear person is being said by a woman who was a single parent and worked.
2006-08-23 10:02:07
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answered by laughsall 4
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You don't have a clue do you? I am a stay at home mom. My daughter will be 2 in November. I love being able to stay at home and raise her. I don't want some stranger raising my child. Being a stay at home mom is a job in itself. You try for one day staying at home with a child or children and see how tired you are by the end of the day. Get up fix breakfast, clean the house, play with the kids, run errands, cook supper, wash clothes, and try to take a shower yourself. I get on here to take a break from it all. My daughter is napping right now, so I can enjoy myself. By the way I am not fat. Never have been fat, it is genetics for me. Sometimes I don't even have time to eat when I want to. Maybe some stay at home moms are fat and lazy, but not all are. Just like some women that work are fat and lazy. I do plan on going to work soon. i just wanted to be at home with my daughter while she was young and couldn't tell me if she was being mistreated at daycare. I am so glad I am not married to a man like you.
2006-08-23 10:04:21
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answered by Kelli 3
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Hum...I am sure there is stay at home mothers that are like this but it is wrong to generalize.
Making such gross generalizations about millions of women show just how ignorant you are. Or how desperate you are for attention that you purposely post such rubbish to get a reaction from people. Are you type of person that picks on little girls just so you get any type of attention from them?
What you said is just as bad as saying "all Mexicans stink" or "all blonds are dumb" It does not reflect negativity on the race/religion/hair color/person. All it does is reflect ON YOU.
The world is too full of hate.
2006-08-23 10:51:58
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answered by Candice B 3
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Are you freakin serious with that question? Ohmigosh...
They are so not. I am a stay at home mother and totally resent that question. I stay at home with my child beacuse I feel it will benefit him not because I'm lazy and dont want a job. To spend time with your child when they are babies, infants, toddlers..is a great way to develop strong family bonds. When my child starts school I will hen go back to the work force. I think stay at home moms are wonderful...we dont just sit around eating bon bons and painting our nails. I cook and clean, play games with my child, take my child to play groups and other fun activities. In no way am I any where near, nor are most stay at home moms, the type of person you are describing. Think before you speak next time!
2006-08-23 09:53:55
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answered by kjpierce08 2
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I am a stay at home mom myself and I think I work just as hard if not harded than a parent that works outside the home. The only differance is that the parent that work outside the home has off days. My job is 24 hours a day 7 days a week and I LOVE every minute of it. I feel that stay at home parents are very blessed to have that extra time with their kids!!!!
2006-08-23 10:09:51
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answered by Ms Mac 2
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