2006-08-23 09:26:22 · 12 answers · asked by SLR33 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Toddler & Preschooler
If they are valid reasons and are just to insure the safety and security of your child.. yes. I would log everything.. as well as have a 3rd party that is not just a friend of yours or his... someone who has no ties to either you or the baby's father. That way, if something should happen, there is someone who is not friend nor family as a witness to the incident.
2006-08-23 09:31:07 · answer #1 · answered by Kat 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely! If you have any concerns about the fathers ability to look after your daughter, you must protect her. If the father doesnt like the arrangement, I would take it to the next level (infamily court) and have something put into writing.
2006-08-23 16:29:46 · answer #2 · answered by maturemay 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long as they are sound reasons than by all means lay down the law. If you don't think your child will be taken care of properly or in some way be put in danger. Tell him he has to come to your house.
2006-08-23 16:35:48 · answer #3 · answered by echo7284 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have every right to. if you provide more for her and feel she would be in danger out of your sight, of course you do.
i am actually speaking from experience. i have an 8 month old baby and dad is only allowed to visit at my house. may not take the baby unless i go also. it is not through the court but we have that agreement. I also gave him his visitation days as i saw fit. do what you think is of best interest for her, not him.
2006-08-23 17:16:32 · answer #4 · answered by Jacinda 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
definatly. if he has a problem take it to court. there is no reason without a custody order you wouldnt do EVERYTHING that is best for you and your child. if it is not just about your personal feelings and is about the saftey of your child. would you give your child to him if he wasnt the father, if no then tell him what makes you comfortable. if he has a problem take it to court.
2006-08-23 20:34:48 · answer #5 · answered by hedley_20 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can tell him anything you want. However, if he refuses, and it's not in the divorce decree, your powerless to enforce it unless you feel the child is in danger. If the child is not in danger and you withhold the child from the father you will or could be held in contempt of court.
2006-08-23 16:33:42 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it depends. Is it written in any divorce papers or custody agreement that he can have unsupervised visitation? If so, then you need to contact a lawyer and get it changed. If not, if you guys get along, then approach it with it as a "preference" not a demand.
2006-08-23 16:32:31 · answer #7 · answered by zippythejessi 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes if he is a child molester or you feel uncomfortable about anything that deals with your daughter's safety.
2006-08-23 16:32:06 · answer #8 · answered by patricia h 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why did you make a baby with someone you wouldn't trust around it?
2006-08-23 16:32:18 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You might not be legally able to. However, the court would.
2006-08-23 20:25:08 · answer #10 · answered by CCTCC 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋