Last night we were cuddling, and he was telling me how much he cared and how amazing i was to him. all of a sudden he just blurted out "i totally love you"
there was some silence, i just cuddled up next to him and he said that he could not believe he just said that, and he laughed nervously.
since i am a smartass, I wanted to lighten the mood so i playfully hit him in the shoulder and said "i love you too man" in a hippie stoney voice..hehe
was this an accident or do you think he may love me?
what would your feelings be if your BF (of 3 months) said this to you???
2006-08-23 09:20:20 · 42 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
thank you guys for all the GREAT answers!!!!! I really really appreciate the help and the insight!
(and, I think i am falling in love with him...not just because he said that but i felt that way before!)
2006-08-23 09:30:14 · update #1
The mood and setting may have influenced him. Chances are he does have caring feelings, and perhaps even love, but don't bring it up again...let him. If he meant it, he'll say it again...if it was a slip, then he doesn't need to be reminded as it might run him off.
Someone with no feelings isn't likely to say that to you though, in the way you described, so take comfort that it appears he really digs you...and hopefully the feeling is reciprocated.
2006-08-23 09:24:14 · answer #1 · answered by . 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Hi, 3 months isn't very long,but my best friend from high school was in the same spot your in now. But her b.f. at the time meant what he said,And they are still marry to this day.That was 40yrs. ago. Yes,I think you boy friend meant what he said.I would of gave him a big hugg and a juicey kiss. If this happen to me,I would be the happies person in the world.And then see how things go. Good Luck and i wish you all the happiness in the world.
Clowmy
2006-08-23 09:31:07 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He told you that in 3-months? Wow, well, there is a very good chance he does love but, since this is new, people commonly get loved and lust confused. Especially girl, since you all are way more emotional than us guys but, us guys, when we see something we like, we will say or do anything to keep that, well, at least we should and, you girls are guilty of it too. So, he might be just in lust after you and thinks he does and in reality he does not. Just wait, a few more months and see if he will say that again. Keep this in mind, people will say anything or do anything to get what they want, if you know what I mean.
2006-08-23 09:26:29 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it could have just been post-orgasmic glow. but then again, after 3 months together, that might be what he's feeling right now. see what he says & does over the next couple of days, then the next time ya'll are cuddled up, just very quietly mention it & ask him if that's how he feels. I'm willing to bet he loves you. have fun & good luck!!
2006-08-23 09:24:04 · answer #4 · answered by pumpkin 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like he may really love you. You really can't put a time frame on love. If it were me, i'd probably think it was really sweet, and if I felt the same way towards him, i'd tell him I loved him too. However, it sounds like you don't really reciprocate his feelings, so if that's the case, I would have kissed him and told him thank you for loving me.
2006-08-23 09:27:54 · answer #5 · answered by Shannon83 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He probably does and said it to see what your reaction would be. Ask him about it. What are your true feelings for him? Do you think that you could love him in that way?
See what you feel and then ask him about what it was all about. That's the only way you'll ever know. It might help the akwardness.
2006-08-23 09:25:05 · answer #6 · answered by starlet_80 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he does. are you afraid of love? Maybe he said it out of a relaxed blissful feeling he gets when he is around you. Don't freak out. Just take your time and don't make fun of the guy for telling you his feelings or he may never tell them to you again.
2006-08-23 09:26:25 · answer #7 · answered by Roger C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol with that response you're lucky if he ever says it again. but ya if you had just got done with sex, it is an easy thing to let slip out. More than likely he is the type who develops a connection rapidly. unless you want him to be all over you, you did the right thing. but if you love him too, let him know and be serious.
2006-08-23 09:24:18 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You two clearly have a very intense relatinoship and feelings. Times are good. Wait till you go through good and bad before you decide what the feeling ius. In the meantime, enjoy it!!!!
2006-08-23 09:23:08 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i agree with the first answer..and lightening the mood like that was probably a good idea...well just don't say it back untill you know for sure you love him back, or things get weird
2006-08-23 09:25:03 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋