what do u do if a guy you love (he claims to love you to) says he will talk to you later cuz he has things to do and you havent really talked to him or seen him in like two weeks
2006-08-23 09:18:06 · 36 answers · asked by </3 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He's Just Not That In To You!!! Get the book
2006-08-23 09:22:01 · answer #1 · answered by Creole 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Two things. One, you are being too needy or insecure about it. I mean, you have a life to live, so does he. Two, the worst thing is he could be cheating on you or getting tired of and he doesn't want to deal with you. I mean, we all need some space from time to time but, for almost 2 weeks not to talk much or see each other, that is a bit too much.
2006-08-23 09:21:24 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This can go one of two ways.
Either the guy really is busy, and has something that he needs to do that is more important than you.
Or he has no ba||s to tell you that he's tired of you or whatever.
Eitherway, so what keep several plates spinning, you need to have a few guys on your back burners you can call up for some fun.
2006-08-23 10:16:30 · answer #3 · answered by jeff the drunk 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
COMMUNICATION is the MOST important element of ANY really GOOD relationship! Any guy who says he loves you, yet he's "too busy" to give you at least a few minutes (better still AN HOUR OR TWO!) after not even seeing you for two weeks, he's lying! You need to call him on this....tell him how he has HURT YOU, and how you don't feel he really RESPECTS YOU for who you are! A good LOVER is a good LISTENER! He will put YOUR feelings and interests ahead of HIS OWN! This guy sounds really SELFISH to me. If I had a woman who was THAT devoted to me, I would NOT take her for granted! It MAY be time for you to just MOVE ON! Find someone who WILL listen and COMMUNICATE! "I love you" means "You mean more to me than ANYONE (including MYSELF!), and I'm willing to PROVE it!" Like they say, ACTIONS speak louder than words!
2006-08-23 09:32:21 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men and women just dont see love the same way,maybe he does have things to do. my sons girlfriend drove him crazy,he really did love her but her constant need to talk all the time finally got to him. he was working long hours and trying to sleep, she would leave like 20 mesages on his phone a day. this guy could really and truly be busy.
2006-08-23 09:25:26 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he has done the classic: "I'll call you tomorrow" and never calls. I would make one last attempt to meet up with or just talk to him. If that falls through take the hint and go looking for a new man, there are plenty out there.
2006-08-23 09:22:39 · answer #6 · answered by Karina 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You really need to ask that? How long did you wait after meeting him before sleeping with him? Thats a MAJOR factor in whether or not you're getting the "call back" or the "brush off"
2006-08-23 10:10:05 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump him, He dont really love you cause if he did, he would see you, or talk to you every day. When Ur really in love you want to spend every minite with the one U love and if U cant be there with them, then You can call, or IM, or text, or send letters or.....
Just my thought
2006-08-23 09:25:00 · answer #8 · answered by truthfinder1960 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
--realize that the guy you think you love, does not care that much about you and start to get over him. There is no reason or excuse. What you think is 'love' is just an attraction. Real love involes trust and caring. It took me many years and real problems to understand what love is.
2006-08-23 09:21:18 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he's got something going on that he doesn't want you to know about. Talk to him. If he loves you, he'll be straight with you. If he beats around the bush, you've got problems.
2006-08-23 09:22:19 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋