What do you feel about having sex with lots of women, in America do you feel that's something to be proud of? And ladies is having many men you sleep with something you'd tell the man who wants to marry you?
2006-08-23 09:11:49 · 13 answers · asked by Wood77 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes 327 is alot, please only interesting intelligent comments, no offense intended....
2006-08-23 09:15:47 · update #1
I think it is not right. I am American and I saved myself for marriage.
2006-08-23 09:15:33 · answer #1 · answered by AsianPersuasion :) 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being a lady, I have been honest with my future husband. He knows how many, but not any details. As for my opinion, I don't think having a lot of partners is really anything to be proud of. I don't know that I would consider it a bad thing either. Just depends on the individual circumstances.
2006-08-23 16:15:05 · answer #2 · answered by KCH 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was born and raised American, and I do not think that anyone, male or female, should be proud of sleeping with a great number of partners. It's not something to be proud of, and I would question a person's values before marrying someone with a high number.
2006-08-23 16:18:01 · answer #3 · answered by tru_til_da_end 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I personally think that guys and girls that sleep with lots of people have issues. I associate sex as something that is enjoyable yes, but it is better when there is a bond between 2 people.
I'm not saying only sleep with one person and that's it, but why 10 or 30 or 100!
2006-08-23 16:15:33 · answer #4 · answered by starlet_80 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I certainly wouldn't lie, not a good basis for a marriage. Besides if he can't deal with that he isn't someone I want to be with anyway because he wants to delude himself in to believing that I didn't exist before I met HIM and that is a clear indicator that he is extremely unrealistic and self centered. I don't know that its something to be proud of, it either is or it isn't. Personally I would prefer being with someone who has had experiences and therefore might know what they want instead of being with them for 5 years then having them start to wonder what it might be like somewhere else.
2006-08-23 16:16:09 · answer #5 · answered by dappersmom 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends. If the number is small I'd probably tell him, no problem- but only if he asks, I wouldn't volunteer that sort of info. If the number is large then I wouldn't tell him- apparently men have BIG egos & if I love the guy I wouldn't want to make him feel insecure like that.
2006-08-23 20:07:59 · answer #6 · answered by Bobbie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Having sex with a lot of women is not a favorite sport of a True Gentleman!!!
2006-08-23 16:15:51 · answer #7 · answered by lariat_sonata 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A real lady never tells but can still name all the names!
2006-08-23 16:14:10 · answer #8 · answered by jennw33 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well ive only been with 2 men b4
my ex is the first and i got my first 2 girls from him,
and the second is my hubby who i love more than anything in the world and he has given me 5 more kids
2006-08-23 16:16:56 · answer #9 · answered by fuzzycakes 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would not tell him at all... He doesn't need to know about the past but worry about the present and the future
2006-08-23 16:14:03 · answer #10 · answered by Cubanita 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it is despicable,and NO, In America it is not something to be proud of!!
2006-08-23 16:14:30 · answer #11 · answered by dlgrl=me 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋