ok i came home from work only to find my bro in law is eating something dat didnt come out of the shopping money. but the thing is when i thought about it he doesnt come to do the food shopping with me and my bf so how would he know whats personal and whats not so i said to him in past tense those roasties are nice and he nodded and left it to that. then to top it all i find in his bedroom that he has the battery charger to recharge batteries which when i thought again we bought that as a household thing and i have my own personal one so i think i kinda of over reacted once again because for all i know my bro in law didnt go in my room it was my bf that gave it to him. do you guys think i was over reacting and being silly
2006-08-23 09:11:13 · 19 answers · asked by sexy babes 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
also i have a battery charger of mine own so the batteries he is charging i dont actually need,
2006-08-23 09:13:02 · update #1
Coming from a woman with a brother in law that sounds identical to yours I would establish some house rules...this is mine and that is yours, if you want something of mine you need to ask before taking. If your bf decides to give him something of yours then he should also ask/tell you where it went. It seems like when my brother in law is at my house he leaves his stuff for me to pick up and eats everything in sight and leaves the dishes, etc. NO NO NO I had to lay down the law and I think the bf should have a slight say so in what rules are established but like I said only slight because if "momma aint happy aint no body happy" RIGHT?
2006-08-23 09:40:49 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you sound like a B*tch to be honest, you have said you don't need the charger, his room might just of been the place with the empty socket he could of unplugged the fridge to use it, and food should not be an issue , you said he doesn't go shopping so doesn't know it's something you bought for you,unless it's the last thing in the house and it's taken from a child's mouth, other than that you can send him to the store to replace the roasties
2006-08-27 07:20:00 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you are overeacting. I've looked at your other questions and you seem to be repeating yourself an awful lot. You sound like a bit of a myrter (however you spell it) almost like your life is not complete without a bit of drama in it. As I have said in previous answers just move out. Your BF sounds nice but very fed up! do the leg work find a nice, affordable place and just move there. If your flat is yours (i.e. you have a mortgage) or is to nice to leave then you need to set down some ground rules and make sure this brother ahears to them. If not you must tell him (politely) that it's time for him to find a place of your own. But if you can move out do so, get a one bedrom place so there is no room for him to stay!! x
2006-08-24 01:37:39 · answer #3 · answered by Little minx 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-05 11:34:47 · answer #4 · answered by shea 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's obvious that the brother-in-law is getting on your last damn nerve. If he's the guest in your home he's being very inconsiderate. I think a meeting is in order. If you don't say anything to him it's just going to build up until you find yourself beating him to death with the battery charger. You're holding it in and that's why you're about to snap. Girl don't you know it's not in our genetic make up to be quiet? Shutting the hell up is not encoded in a woman's DNA. Say something before you explode and kill everyone in the house.
2006-08-23 09:17:02 · answer #5 · answered by lovelee1 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
For the benefit of the baffled I will try and surmise... You share living accomodation with your boyfriend and his brother and you are getting annoyed because he isn't contributing as much as you to the household shopping but is eating the same and taking liberties? Simple tell him to sling his hook or you and your partner relocate. I wish all problems were that easy to solve in life
2006-08-23 09:28:40 · answer #6 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not sure if you're over-reacting it's just hard to live with someone who is not your friend or partner and even if they are it can be difficult. Maybe you/he should look for somewhere else to live everyone needs their own space.
2006-08-23 09:15:42 · answer #7 · answered by Angel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good God...
First, you should try asking your question in proper English with proper grammar.
Secondly...I frankly don't care. You sound like a nag.
Thanks for the 2 points.
From the Great and Powerful Poppet
2006-08-23 09:15:13 · answer #8 · answered by Poppet 3 · 1⤊ 2⤋
phewwwwwww a few full stops would be good!
Think you all need to sit down and work out some house rules.
2006-08-23 09:14:27 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
i think all 3 of you should sit down & establish some house rules. boring i know but it might help stop this kind of thing from happening.
2006-08-23 09:14:18 · answer #10 · answered by tjstarbe 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋