I post questions of love and relationships because I like to hear different opinions, not judging but just listening.........women say "you guys" just want sex...answer this men "is sex you main goal from woman and if it is why?? Ladies if you believe some guys are just after sex, then why do you think SOME women give it away so easily?
2006-08-23 09:06:21 · 7 answers · asked by Wood77 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
This is my opinion... and proud to stand by it!!!!
Sex is not the most important thing in my life.... and not the most important thing I look for (of after) in a girl..... or even a girlfriend. lol
Dont get me wrong... but sex is something I enjoy in life... and Im sure many people (male or female) will agree with me too. However, sex is not something I happen to 'want' from a female and certainly NOT a goal to seek for either.
There are guys out there that sees a girl for the main intentions of sex... but the truth is... girls can be like this also!! I say that by experiance.... but I am only refering to a minority!! Those girls never did get me, because it doesnt interest me in the slightest!!!
Everyone loves sex... but I could quite happily live without it it could give me that 's[pecial' girl in life. Take an example.... if I met a girl and she couldnt have sex for whatever reason... would this be a problem for me? No!!!!!... Of course not!!! Sex plays a part.... but I guess I am making a point that I personally dont care about the sex.
I guess I have made my point..... that I dont plan to have sex with a girl to accomplish a goal!!! Its not a game, like some guys see it. I guess I'm boring, but I dont care... Im happy with my life!!!!
I do believe... in some cases... that girls give it away not easily... but too early in a relashionship. You know... before they truely know if the guy (boyfriend) is legit, or trying to get a 'goal'.
I guess girls do it tooo early because they feel a guy has needs, or maybe afraid they will loose them. I personally make it clear to the girl that Im in no rush... and in one scenario, it encouraged her even more to 'give it away' even quicker!
Who knows.... I guess a girl can answer this part more accurately!!
All the best!!!!
2006-08-23 09:26:08 · answer #1 · answered by The Avenger 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am not in it for sex. I am 19 and I am still a virgin...I am waiting for the right girl to come along. If that girl ends up not believeing in having sex until after marriage then I will just have to wait then... I cannot say all men are like this because well u would know that I was telling a big fat @ss lie!!! I do know lots of guys that are just after sex all of the time...after i saw how sex changed some people for the worst when they were younger, it got me thinking about just holding out for a bit...I thnk in the long run it will be for the best though...
2006-08-23 16:09:18 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I will be honest, that is a very good question. I have seen girls 'give it away' very easily and I could imagine that some girls do that because they really love that guy but sometimes, I would suspect, the guy was only after her body the whole time. Fortunate enough for me, I'm not as dumb.
2006-08-23 16:11:19 · answer #3 · answered by lady_ellie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it is very funny that a girl who has sexual whatever the rest of her name is has the balls to say that girls that give it up easily have low self esteem -- and what is she craving by having sexual in her name I'm sure it's not attention and she sure does not have low self esteem...anyways some girls are like men they just love the sex and that's it...
2006-08-23 16:15:17 · answer #4 · answered by tinker 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, sometimes women feel lonely or just want to have a one night stand. Sometimes we think the guy is interested in us and we sleep with him to find out at the end that he was just playing with our feelings. Some people don't give a s/h/i/t about sex and see it only as a way to release stress, that's why they do it with anybody...
2006-08-23 16:09:36 · answer #5 · answered by Cubanita 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Some do it out of control, others do it to feel desired. You can also think of it psychologically speaking and say that they were probably lacking in any kind of male role models in their lives and now are searching for love from any male that shows any sign of interest. Then again, others are just slu**y like that. =)
2006-08-23 16:10:38 · answer #6 · answered by Brea1243 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Because they have low self esteem and crave acceptance, even if it is only for a few minutes. Pathetic really!
2006-08-23 16:08:38 · answer #7 · answered by AsianPersuasion :) 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋