I have been with this guy for about 2 months.I only see him about once or twice a week.whenever i'm with him everthing is great and he acts like he really wants to see me again the next day or so and says he will call but then he doesn't.I sometimes call or text him then it takes a day for him to get back to me.I don't understand it.it's kinda like he's playing games with me.he's 27 and I'm 22.maybe he's not ready for a relationship?should I stop calling him and let him think I'm giving up on him and see if that works?
2006-08-23 09:05:37 · 39 answers · asked by tiff83 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He's a guy. Play hard to get.
2006-08-23 09:06:40 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
If he's not responding to calls or texts and only a glance of him couple times a week, he's got someone else or or playing puppy with a pork chop with you. To much time and to many guys to wait around on someone like him. You have only been with him a couple of months, break up shouldnt be difficult, just tell him you've had fun but things aren't as exciting as you had hoped and wish him well. If he decides to inquire, tell him you have more fun with 2 sided conversations, even a computer will give you a response when you ask.
2006-08-23 09:13:31 · answer #2 · answered by MrsPTB4Life 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
LOL@see if that works. Honey, if you have to work this hard to be with someone thats a HUGE clue that he isn't worth being with. A guy that is really interested in you and really wants to be with you does call, he does make time. He's probably dating two other girls. Yes you should stop calling him, not to see if it works but to give yourself some dignity and self respect. Is this really how you want to be treated? A lot of people are real sweet when they are right in front of you but that isn't really what counts, what does is how they treat you when you ARE NOT looking and this guy doesn't have the time of day for you then!
2006-08-23 09:10:55 · answer #3 · answered by dappersmom 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Do you have to talk to him every day? Give him some time to call,men like the chase,seems like youre the one chasing.Hell call if hes inteested if hes not all your doing is getting on his nerves. He has a life outside of you,its only been 2 months! guys just dont see this as important as most women do. I say most because i dont have the need to have a man up my butt 24_7. Just take it easy .stay busy and stop worrying so much.
2006-08-23 09:19:27 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he is busy or he doesn't like you that much. A day? That's not bad,at least it's not a week or something. Don't push him to hard to love you,he will call you when he has the time. Everyone has their own life & has things they need to do.
Good Luck & Best Wishes~
2006-08-23 09:08:18 · answer #5 · answered by Jeremy 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think there must be any special school for boys where they gain bachelor's degree in " I will call you, baby" There are so many other boys round the world, choose somebody without phone and forget this 27 old adult-baby :)
2006-08-23 09:13:45 · answer #6 · answered by Ina K 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Have you ever read the book, He's Just Not That Into You? Sounds like a classic case. Men LOVE a challenge. Don't call or be that accessable. If he wants to see you, he'll come around. It works everytime. Good luck!
2006-08-23 09:11:49 · answer #7 · answered by Cat 1 · 2⤊ 1⤋
I remember that happened to me too. You need to just stop calling him and see if he calls you. Don't be available for him too much. Even if your home, let the answering machine pick up and then wait an hour or so and then call him back. Play his game and see how he reacts to it.
I did and the guy ended up to be now my husband.
2006-08-23 09:08:13 · answer #8 · answered by GQ69 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just take it for what it is. He is only thinking of you when you are together. Once you are gone, "It's out of sight, out of mind". He is not thinking of you when he is doing everything he wants to or needs to do. It is an arrogant attitude. Don't be desparate, find other things to do. Invite him to things and see if he responds. If he doesn't, move on. He will call if he misses you.
2006-08-23 09:12:56 · answer #9 · answered by whouwith60561 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he just wanna be friends , but you should really talked to him and see what he up to but you know guys will be guys they just love playing games , think about it and do what is best for you .
2006-08-23 09:13:16 · answer #10 · answered by princess11 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
He could be married, maybe he is not really that interested in you but just needs sex. Don't waste your time on him, kick him to the curb and wait for the love of your life to show up. The man should always love the woman more than she loves him.....because a mans loves cools off quicker than a women's.
2006-08-23 09:10:24 · answer #11 · answered by kar_summers 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋