2006-08-23 09:02:24 · 19 answers · asked by </3 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
YOU MOVE ON, THAT'S WHAT YOU DO!! otherwise, you are the ONLY ONE staying stuck on stupid!!
2006-08-23 09:05:34 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get with the program and move on yourself. It takes time, but time in itself doesn't fix anything, its what you do with the time that counts. If you spend that time doing nothing but thinking about what was yesterday that is how you will spend your tomorrows. You have to grieve, but give yourself a limit, after that push yourself forward, no matter how much you don't want to, keep busy doing things that make you happy, at first it will serve no real purpose except distracting your brain, but eventually you will find joy in them again.
Take care of yourself physically, make great meals just for you, don't start eating junk just because its just you eating it, read some great books, listen to great music, DANCE (nobody can be sad when they dance) even if its home by yourself, shop, spend time with friends and family, volunteer in your community with people or dogs if you prefer. Do the things you gave up for your relationship. Soon you will find yourself understanding what went wrong and ready to try again. good luck, be patient with yourself, and remember it will get better!
2006-08-23 09:06:37 · answer #2 · answered by dappersmom 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find someone new, thats the only thing I can suggest. I nursed a heart ache for a long time before I relized I was just wasting my time and life on a worthless cause. Moved on and been happy every since
2006-08-23 10:08:16 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get physically ill and cry all the time. It's not easy in some cases when you haven't got closure. One needs to know for certain if it's fact that the other has moved on. Until that is known, hurt and pain fills the heart and mind........
2006-08-23 09:24:12 · answer #4 · answered by silhouette 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on too after you have cried. I speak from first hand experience. Its not easy, and life ususally isn't but its necessary to do this. Go out with friends and have a good time. Tings change so rapidly enjoy the ride!!
2006-08-23 09:07:37 · answer #5 · answered by teulonbranchlibrary 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think u should pick up the peices to ur heart b/c it is gonna be broken and move on b/c god must not have yall together for a reason and look at it as this if it is true love let it go and if it comes back around it is ment to be...
2006-08-23 09:05:20 · answer #6 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You move on because dwelling on something will run you ragged. It is gonna hurt for a while. But after a while (and a few drinks) the pain is deadened
2006-08-23 09:05:20 · answer #7 · answered by lemonsquare 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well even thiugh it hurts you have to wish them well. That is really hard to do. Sometimes if you handle things the right way then that person may come back to you if his relationship doesnt work out. Be the better person and wish him the best.
2006-08-23 09:45:45 · answer #8 · answered by JERSEY 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the only thing u can do is cry
or move on. it's easier said than done. but you have already did the first thing u need to do: recognize that he HAS moved on! good for u, and good luck with the rest of the journey!
god bless
2006-08-23 09:04:37 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it does suck. i was there a couple of weeks ago. and i would always think of him. it really sucked. and i saw him this week. it wasn't the same. he doesn't look at me any more but its ok. I'm pretty sure we have both moved on. but the weird thing was that his parents kept looking at me. hm......... do they talk about me? probably
i keep my self busy by playing with my cats. i love them. sorry cant really help.
but Good luck
2006-08-23 09:40:57 · answer #10 · answered by Female 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that sucks I am in the same situation and I thought I was over her but when I saw her with another guy I could just feel my blood start getting hot but I had to hold it in and dont cause her any problems
2006-08-23 09:07:13 · answer #11 · answered by crazy 4 somethin' real 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋