she was always pritty mean to him, and they always argued, they went out on and off for 9 months but he dumped her two months ago, and she was compleatly deverstated and cried for ages but says she doesn't like him anymore. i was at a party the other day and he was there, (my friend wasn't) we got really close all evening and end up making-out and i stopped it beacause of my friend but he swears they are over and that theres really nothign to feel bad about. now he wants to get together and i want to aswel but i really don't want to hurt my friend, and i don't want to be constantly thinking he's comparing me to her.
2006-08-23 08:55:02 · 19 answers · asked by Louise-Rose 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It is not okay to date your best-friends ex. That's a rule you never date one of your friend's ex.In your ? you said your friend cried for ages, then that means she had real feelings toward him and liked/loved him. It's not okay and you shouldn't do that. I bet you not that the ex is saying its okay for you to date him, but its not. It can en you and your best friends realationship. Don't be that way. :(
2006-08-23 09:01:07 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I doubt you would really have to worry about him comparing you to her...but dating friends ex's is never good. Trust me on this one, it's not worth it. You can find other guys out there, do you really need to go out with this one? I mean is it really worth risking possibly a friendship over? Even if your friend says she is over the whole thing and wouldn't care, I still wouldn't if I were you...but thats just my opinion do what you like.
2006-08-23 08:59:53 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
for me dont accept him,because if your friend do that to you ,you will not like it.and your friend will think that you are the one making them to broke up ,because you want to take him.and there are many guys out there you can get he is not the only guy in the world,and if you are a good friend with your girlfriend you should not even ask this question.so u think he will not dump you.
2006-08-23 09:07:09 · answer #3 · answered by candyqueen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im gunna have to say no. your best friend might feel betrayed if her ex broke up with her and then asked you out and you said yes. if it was your ex and your best friend, how do you think you would feel? if she broke up with him, see if it's okay to go out with him and make sure you know why they didn't work out because it may be a reoccuring problem. hope this helps!
2006-08-23 09:01:33 · answer #4 · answered by fanta chic 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You already f-ed up...hope your "friend" doesn't read this. Seriously I don't know how it goes for women, but guys can not go out with their friends ex-gf, gf, wives, -ex-wives or sisters unless they ask first and even then it isn't cool in most situations.
2006-08-23 08:58:52 · answer #5 · answered by hawksfan17 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's ok just be a friend and help her take the knife out her back
2006-08-23 08:58:13 · answer #6 · answered by D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well its really hard to answer this since she used to treat him bad but she is your friend but, if you really like him go ahead, but talk to him first about the situation...it happened to me, my best friend married my ex and well, i got over it, life goes on..
2006-08-23 09:00:51 · answer #7 · answered by Gabs 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no its not bcuz u could lose ur best friend ova somebody who maybe doesnt even care about u.
2006-08-23 08:59:36 · answer #8 · answered by Lashanda E 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
can with anyone you want
you really wanna date a person that you know to be mean?
2006-08-23 08:58:13 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO NO NO IT IS NEVER OK TO GO OUT WITH A FRIENDS EX EVEN IF SHE SAYS ITS OK!!!! Please don't!!!! You could ruin your friendship don't take the chance!!!!
2006-08-23 08:58:45 · answer #10 · answered by MissWolf 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋