I should give the $124 track suit I bought for him? My mom syas, I should not giv anything expensive, just something small b/c reallythr guy should be showering the girl and not vice-versa.
Also, 'mother says', lol, the guy should be after the woman and trying to gain her heart and love..:)
2006-08-23 08:44:49 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ah nope... your mother just wants the best for you which is understandable.. But you can't buy love... I don't think you should expect really expensive gifts, just sweet gifts from the heart. If your buying him loads of stuff, it is probably because you want something in return.. Or because you think you have nothing to offer him.. Your love should be all that is needed, and his love should be satisfising enough to you..
2006-08-23 08:49:07 · answer #1 · answered by ۞ JønaŦhan ۞ 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I do agree with your mom when she says u shouldn't be buying him an expensive gift but you have to think again about the point she made that the man should be chasing the girl and showering her with gifts all the time. No guy wants to be with an high priced female its better to be friends give a card something simple to show you appreciate him but don't go above and beyond best friends can end up being great couples. NOt shallow ones.
2006-08-23 08:49:31 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't listen to your mom, shes living in the past.
Its totally OK to give a guy expensive stuff or even little gifts.
Why should we have to be the only ones forking over the big bucks on gifts.
No No No
2006-08-23 08:48:56 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is what I think. It doesn't matter how expensive something, as long as you got it for him and it came from you, it's all about the thought. And, since it's his Birthday, you should give him something for it. Also, it is partial true that the guy is suppose to be more supportive to give the girls stuff but, I believe it's time for a change, we've been giving and giving, we hardly ever receive anything, it's time for the ladies to reward us.
2006-08-23 08:50:18 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
124$ track suite? How long have you been together and how old are you? Has he ever bought you anything that expensive? If he hasn't then I wouldn't give it to him. Get him some cologne or something.
2006-08-23 08:47:46 · answer #5 · answered by angel2005_2001 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your boyfriend has mentioned that he'd want a track suit like that, but hasn't bought one for himself, and it's the right size, then give it to him!
He will like you a lot.
But -- if he has never ever mentioned wanting that sort of track suit, sorry. See if you can get a refund from the store. Getting an unwanted/useless/wrong gift annoys guys.
P.S. I wish I had a girlfriend like you!
2006-08-23 08:57:41 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your mom is wrong. Nobody should need to shower anyone with gifts to get their affection.
If you bought this guy a present and you want to give it to him, then do so. However, if he is not your boyfriend, you shouldn't be giving him gifts in the hopes that a relationship will develop.
2006-08-23 08:48:43 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maximum shops like Wal Mart, aim, and Toys r us have mini activities ball instruments that are exceedingly low-priced and if she is a tom boy im particular she might like some thing like that. they frequently incorporate a soccer ball, basketball, and soccer (each and every so often greater) and that they are comfortable and sized completely for little ones. Play doe is likewise much less high priced and what youngster does not like play doe?? additionally, bubbles are exciting for each individual and extremely low-priced. Water weapons are yet another selection if she is permitted to have them...they are exciting interior the summertime and you gets an rather cool lookin one for under $10. If she likes bugs possibly a computer virus trapping equipment/field. additionally they have butterfly domes the place you deliver off for the larve and get to observe catterpillers become butterflies. that's approximately $15 at Toys r us. additionally they make teenagers fishing poles that easily artwork rather nicely and are not high priced in any respect...possibly $10. desire this helped! sturdy luck!
2016-09-29 21:52:01 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your mom is right. However, give him the suit, just don't make a practice of getting expensive gifts unless he 'earns' them. Hell, a simple unexpected peck on the cheek is worth more than just about anything. Learn to play the game, girl.
2006-08-23 08:47:48 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hold on here girl,ive got a phd in love relationship's...first Yes buy him thing's! but not (anything) that cost a'lot! wait till he has got you somthing in a range,that say's i care!!!! then you need to set down and ask yourself this! why should i have Anything spent on me? your just a women,they're a dime a dozen anywhere in this world! so just keep your mouth shutt,have fun with him for a while'i'de say 6 maybe 7 month's then move on, find another man, thats better than he is in bed.then after 7 maybe 8 months dump him find another man/women that would make you happy! the end
2006-08-23 08:56:05 · answer #10 · answered by rpoker 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋