Why is it hard for some woman now to believe that a man really loves you? Why do woman stay in relationships when they feel unloved? I strongly believe in loving only one woman and doing the best to treat her as such... but attitudes of Some suggest it is not possible in this day and age, and relationships that last forever cannot exist.
2006-08-23 08:44:36 · 17 answers · asked by Wood77 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Not a woman, but from my own view, I think it's because most women have low self esteem and think if they leave the asshole they are with, they dont think they could get any better. And therefore they get used to not feeling loved, and when they do find someone who truly loves them, they force themselves not to believe it. Just my own opinion though.
2006-08-23 08:47:05 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
First of all, Way to Go!! You are a rare breed out there. This is why women are so skeptical. They've been burned too many times by all the jerks out there. All women need to feel loved and wanted (even if they try to tell you different - like they don't need anyone) That's also why women stay in relationships when they are unloved. I used to be extremely judgemental of men and wouldn't give them a chance. I thought men wanted one thing, and one thing only. SEX. but there are still some good men out there and you are proof. I have now been married almost 15 years and can tell you that relationships can last and be great too. Good luck. Keep looking for that special girl. You will find her!
2006-08-23 08:52:40 · answer #2 · answered by jabbergirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it's because people aren't very honest and most guys just want to have sex , the real values of a relationship are disappearing each day , people have less communication with their love ones .the words I love you are said without meaning it just to make the other person feel right . about staying in relationships when they feel unloved is the fact of not wanting to be alone . ha vent you heard that you could be surrounded by a hundred people and still feel lonely.
2006-08-23 08:59:43 · answer #3 · answered by strawberrymoon86 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I also strongly believe in loving only one man. There are complications, though. So is my experience, anyway. Some relationships can and do last forever, some dont. That doesnt mean they dont love each other.
2006-08-23 08:48:38 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
for the record im not a woman im a young lady, but i still want to comment.
its not hard for ALL women to believe that. it's that many of us have been badly hurt (emotionally and/or physically) and heart broken, and simply given up. I still believe in the things you've mentioned.
2006-08-23 08:47:57 · answer #5 · answered by La Princesa 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
cuz now all men wnt is SEX. when thy in bed with chu they sometimes say i love u and the next day it ur a b****, now relationship r not that serious as be4. everybody cheats or go have what they wnt somewhere else. it hard to find real love this days. u don't know which guy is serious or which one just wnt sex, same as 4 women.
2006-08-23 08:51:59 · answer #6 · answered by naneya 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The thing is, we find it hard to believe cause most men tell us what we want to hear, until they get what they want. Or they drag you along until they find someone else. I should know, I've been through it before, and I agree with them, it's pretty hard to believe men these days.
2006-08-23 08:50:40 · answer #7 · answered by Read the nametag, Duh! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are an exception, not all men think like you. And some women are too insecure and think thay can't find someone better, so they stay with the jerks they're with.
2006-08-23 08:48:27 · answer #8 · answered by interpreters_are_hot 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
True humans were not ment to be with only one person for their life time. if this was true there would only be one man for every woman. relationships will not last for ever. people stay together for children money and just because they don't want to be alone.
2006-08-23 08:47:58 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Why aren't there more men like you?! Well maybe that's the reason why a lot of women are like that, because there are really not that many guys like you especially young guys.
2006-08-23 08:48:35 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋