2006-08-23 08:42:59 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
One word... Comproimise.... Realationships are about alittle give.. and a little take.. for a peaceful coexistance you can't always have things your way....I had to learn that the hard way.. I'm an only child used to getting everything the way I want.. but when you're married you have to learn that that's just not fair.. so ya.. a little give... a little take.. and alot of love!
Good luck!
2006-08-23 08:59:07 · answer #1 · answered by lyzerdeyez 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Communication and trust, I believe are the keys to a marriage. While there are other things that also play a factor, talking and actually listening to each other is huge. And as far as trust goes, if you lose that there is nothing that will get you back to where you want to be.....
Just remember thou, It does take two. When two people come together they are coming from two different backgrounds (upbringings) its not always easy and many couples go through growing pains and sometimes it just is not meant to be. Hopefully you can make it work. - Good Luck...
2006-08-23 15:50:39 · answer #2 · answered by slash1251 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
clean up your environment.
clean up your emotions. don't hold on to anger. hold on to love. act out of love, not out of fear.
apologize often. get used to apologizing sincerely, and expect your mate to do the same.
set boundaries and be clear about your feelings when those boundaries are crossed. know what your deal-breakers are, and know your mate's deal-breakers.
when you're pissed off, remember that obstacles and challenges are teachers. in that way, sometimes partners who drive us nuts are the greatest teachers of all.
don't lie. avoid cruelty, in words and actions.
don't argue when you're furious. it won't help anything.
do these things, and expect your mate to do the same things. be clear about the rules of your relationship and the behavior you expect.
be patient. happy and peaceful takes a long time.
enjoy the journey.
2006-08-23 15:49:34 · answer #3 · answered by kwanyin_mama 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It all depends, are there any hectic things going on? If you want to know how to make it peaceful, you would have to give a little bit more details.
2006-08-23 15:44:54 · answer #4 · answered by lady_ellie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont do like my wife go out an have an affair. then feel like **** for ruining 17 years of marriage. The reason just because just doesn't cut it.
here you go
laugh
love
communicate all the time
respect
lots of sex and fantasies
do everything together...cook clean etc.......
this is a good way
2006-08-23 15:46:39 · answer #5 · answered by Funny 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Marriage is a give and take relationship.Keep the lines of communication open,spend time together and don't go to bed angry!
2006-08-23 16:22:52 · answer #6 · answered by Miss Kimmie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
have a child as i believe child is the strongest bond between husband n wife n which forces them to forget their wishes n be together n concentrate on future life....
2006-08-23 15:46:25 · answer #7 · answered by beautiful_crystal_rose 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Duct tape the husbands mouth shut
2006-08-23 15:45:09 · answer #8 · answered by Only I know 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
communication, trust, love, understanding all r important in a good marriage and remember one advise never go to bed angry. always resolve ur problems b4 u go to sleep otherwise they always add up and caus mor problems
2006-08-23 15:49:06 · answer #9 · answered by in ur face 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You get involved in any social activities of your choice and attend church regularly. Have faith and let God fulfill your happiness.
2006-08-23 15:54:22 · answer #10 · answered by Alex 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋