2006-08-23 08:42:00 · 21 answers · asked by rizk 1 in Health ➔ Diseases & Conditions ➔ Allergies
The real question is why you posted this under 'Allergies.' Are you allergic to nonvirgins?
There is no real way to know without a pelvic exam - don't be fooled into thinking that if she doesn't bleed or it doesn't hurt, then she's not a virgin. Every woman is different. You're just going to have to trust her.
2006-08-23 08:47:19 · answer #1 · answered by sous_lepontmirabeau 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
There is no foolproof way of knowing. A doctor could tell if she'd previously given birth. However, I find it very immature of you to even consider wanting to know. If I were your wife I'd run as far and as fast as I could to get away from you. You sound like your brains might be located between your legs instead of in your head.
2006-08-23 08:48:27 · answer #2 · answered by Tulip 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Simple and straight, take her into confidence. Discuss a lot of things. Keep on talking. During the talk casually shift to the immorality of people. The say to her that you are person who respects morality as you yourself are.
She will then definitely respond. If she does not and since you are talking about the subject you can say to her that I am a virgin and I hope you are.
That should do the trick.
2006-08-25 21:34:47 · answer #3 · answered by Haresh Bhagia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A medical examination can say whether the hymen (a layer of tissue that partially conceals the vaginal orifice) is intact, but that doesn't mean that the hymen is ruptured by sexual act. The hymen can rupture due to strenuous physical activity like cycling, swimming, gymnastics etc. So scientifically you cannot find out her virginity. And some women do not have hymen.
2006-08-24 03:59:09 · answer #4 · answered by Cave Man 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dear,
The issue is not about whether your wife is virgin or not? Take for example, she may be a virgin physically but can she be a virgin mentally? Are you a virgin mentally? Just meditate on it and you will get the anwser. Your wife may be faithful to you out of economical compulsion and security reasons(In india women are dependent on their husband for financial assistance). But that faithfulness does not come out of freedom but out of fear and fear of social obligation. YOu cannot possess anyone in this world. You have come empty. Unless you encounter your emptiness, these kind of questions are bound to recur.
2006-08-23 09:18:22 · answer #5 · answered by HITS_ON_TARGET 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You obviously are from a different country, and its probably a very important part of your culture, however, get over it, a virigin is not a trophy for you. Women are human beings, not prizes. Worry about building love with this woman, and love her no matter what she is.
2006-08-23 19:30:03 · answer #6 · answered by Mariya F 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
are you kidding, how old is she, Fifthteen? If she hasn't told you she's a virgin she's not a virgin. Who the hell cares, are you a virgin? Where you saving yourself for that special woman you're going to spend the rest of your life with and would not break your promise to your Momma? It is the year 2006 if you don't have a calendar, get real she's not a virgin
2006-08-23 18:02:40 · answer #7 · answered by searing 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is only one way to know and that is to ask her. There are no medical tests that will tell you that her hymen is broken. But it will not tell you how it was broken. It can be broken by horse back riding or riding a bicycle or many sports.
So, there's only one way to know. ASK. And trust her.
2006-08-23 08:56:15 · answer #8 · answered by Morphious 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmmm this is just the beginning .. when she delivers you will ask is that my child!!! huh!!! well go to a psychiatrist he will tell YOU what to do. If she is faithful to you accept her forget the past.. whatever. what will you gain by knowing.. . have fun enjoy ur wife enjoy ur life..... cheers
2006-08-23 14:41:34 · answer #9 · answered by biker 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lie detector tests,
interogation methods,
talk with a third party together and bring it up (counseling or @ church)
or the ultimate one of all, TRUST. TRUST that she is speaking the truth and honor her in your marraige and she will honor you.
2006-08-23 08:45:36 · answer #10 · answered by onemanoftheworld 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋