my girl always leaves over the summer for two weeks to go with her family on vacation. i usually go with her but this is a "family" trip for her. i no that she has an ex boyfriend wholives near the vacation spot who she fooled around with the past four times she has gone (not while we were dating.) i think she'll prolly mess around with him(not sex), but close. i trust her but she's done it before. what do i do?
2006-08-23 08:40:12 · 14 answers · asked by togaparty456 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
STAY AT HOME AND FOOL AROUND!
2006-08-23 08:41:38 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
She has NOT done it before!! She did it when you weren't dating. Have you ever been with anyone else? Are they going to be in or near the same town you are in while she is away? She could say the same things about you, but she isn't! This is just silly. Then you say i trust her BUT....when you say BUT it means hey I didn't mean a darn thing I just said now here comes the truth. You absolutely DON'T trust her or this thought wouldn't even cross your mind let alone motivate you to post this question! First thing you need to do is start dealing with reality. You don't trust her, you have NO reason not to. Thats about YOU and has nothing to do with HER. So what you do is not make your issues her issues, they are you problem and you get control of them. Besides it doesn't matter what you DO, if she's gonna fool around on you she is, nothing you can do to change it. However, if you are good to her and you really do trust her she won't want to let you down and disappoint you. If you think of her this way why shouldn't she?
2006-08-23 15:45:52 · answer #2 · answered by dappersmom 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just relax...obviously he's her ex for a reason. I doubt she hooks up with him again, especially if you guys are in a caring committed relationship. Don't base your actions on what you "THINK" she "MIGHT" do...just hang in there and hope for the best. You will only drive her straight into his arms by acting jealous and insecure. When the time comes, kiss her goodbye and tell her to enjoy herself, and the you just sit back and relax.
2006-08-23 15:43:22 · answer #3 · answered by Uh-May-Zing 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You usually go, but she doesn't want you to go this time.
You think she'll probably fool around with her "ex" again, but you trust her?
I think I need to go study my English a little better.
2006-08-23 15:43:12 · answer #4 · answered by wmp55 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you were not together the last few times she went, then why does it matter, its in the past and you werent in the picture. *shrug* seems simple to me. If you trust her then dont worry and hope she has a good time.
2006-08-23 15:43:52 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I mean, you can't stop her from fooling around with him. But if she likes you and respects you, she won't do anything with the guy, and if she does she's obviously not worth your time.
2006-08-23 15:42:54 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
this issues seems to be affecting u alot. If so u dont u talk to her abt ur feelings. Assure her that u trust her and hopes she dont do anything stupid.
goodluck!
2006-08-23 15:56:32 · answer #7 · answered by Miss-Kenya 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask her to take some pics of the 2 of them having sex and email them to you so at least you have something to jack off too. or you could go to webscutest.com and jack off
2006-08-23 15:47:32 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Edward is an idiot. God, do you trust her or not? It sounds like you have zero trust so maybe you should move on if your that insecure about her.
2006-08-23 15:43:38 · answer #9 · answered by metalicgirl69 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just see what happens. Not much you CAN do. If she doesn't, then you know she loves you a lot. If she does, then at least you saw it coming.
2006-08-23 15:42:26 · answer #10 · answered by Mama R 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you trust her
if not then throw in the towel
2006-08-23 15:41:29 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋