one of my best cousins, whom i have grown up with. wont talk to me anymore. It has been driving me nuts.. this has been going un for about 6 months now. I found out she is pregnent. Which she is only 19. Her mom and i got into a fight and i had no desire to go back but i still want to keep intouch with my cousin. I try sending her emails and she never responds, i tried calling her she doesnt want to talk to me. I dont know what i did to her. I want to be there for her . What do I do?
2006-08-23 08:33:32 · 7 answers · asked by th1gurl23 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
The one girl told me "you wake up every day knowing what you gotta do, and go to bed each night having put it off another day."
2006-08-23 08:38:44 · answer #1 · answered by Drowningbluestars 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Family!!!!! When you have words with the Head-Mother, you have just had words with the entire Family! The only way back in is to humble yourself and make peace with her MOM.....even if your weren't wrong, just apologize just the same. It makes you the better person, and builds character with the right stuff. Otherwise, kiss her and her family off for a long time.
That's just my advice for this situation.
2006-08-28 03:40:17 · answer #2 · answered by Mama Mia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if she doesn't want to speak to you there isn't much you can do.
Continue to be supportive, and let her know (by mail, email, telephone whatever) if she chooses to wish to talk to you that you will remain to be there for her, and leave it at that - or you will drive yourself crazy
Best of luck
2006-08-23 08:35:22 · answer #3 · answered by ♥ goddessofraine ♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Send her a card, tell her that whatever you did you are sorry, and if she ever needs to talk you'll be there for her, then leave it at that. You can't force someone to do something they don't want to do.
2006-08-23 08:36:24 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She probably want talk to you because of your fight with her mom. So try to resolve the issue with her mom and then you two may be able to talk.
2006-08-23 08:37:33 · answer #5 · answered by Xena 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
say what you wanted to say to her, which i think you've done already, and then leave the rest up to time...i really hope it works out though
maybe she just has a lot on her mind, with a new baby on the way and with her hormones going wild...
good luck
2006-08-23 08:43:14 · answer #6 · answered by Flaming broomstix! 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Perfect that she's pregnant. Have sex with her Boyfriend, and then send her a card telling her about it. That will get her attention.
2006-08-23 08:35:52 · answer #7 · answered by Badspe11er 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋