My girlfriend beats me and it hurts. Is this normal and if so what should i do? I mean when things are good they couldnt possibly be any better, but she getsb really enraged over dumb things and hits me!
2006-08-23 08:31:40 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
DUMP her asss, and if she sayes she will hurt you more you hit her your the boy, i cant see how she could hit you, i have been in an abusive relationship and it was hard for me to break up with him because he was 2 1/2 years older then me but i did it when he wasn't high because he would only hit me when he was drunk or high
it was the best thing i ever did
2006-08-23 08:38:14 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey jake,
It sounds like your girlfriend might be bipolar. They can be as hot as a sexy porn queen one minute and they can be as crazy insane as an ax murder the next. It's great if you can handle the mood swings, but it sounds like your girlfriend is particularly violent.
The doctor has medications for bipolar disease that your girlfriend can take that will keep her on a more even keel. The only problem is that you won't get that hot, sexy porn queen to come out anymore.
This is a lot more common than you think. This is where all of those Fem Fatales come from in those detective/crime dramas. A crazy woman that men can't stay away from.
In your case, you probably either need to leave the relationship, or have her get some medications to help her (in which case, she'll probably be a different girl anyway). The problem is that if you are hurt in an abusive relationship, the man gets blamed anyway. You could even go to jail in the case of being involved in a domestic violence whether you touched her or not, so it might be best for you to dump her.
There are plenty of girls out there that don't believe in hitting their guy. You might even find a girlfriend that will be as hot as a porn queen. Good luck.
--Rick
2006-08-23 08:54:30 · answer #2 · answered by rickrudge 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it is very common. It's just that women can get by with it because they are usually smaller than their man. It's no more "right" for a woman to hit a man than it is for a man to hit a woman. It's not cool! Look, if you love her, sit down and talk to her. Tell her how you feel, and if she don't stop hitting you, tell her you have to leave. PERIOD! Don't be embarrassed to report her or something. Some people might call you a nerd or something, but it is a lot more serious than what people think.
2006-08-23 08:36:05 · answer #3 · answered by Littlemissy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whoa, hold it! I thought it was supposed to be the other way around. It may sound weird, but even though things are really good, you might want to leave her. Don't let this happen to yourself, get away now!
2006-08-23 08:39:14 · answer #4 · answered by Read the nametag, Duh! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋