Women Comment Please...?

Question

I wanted to share something with you after reading questions from women at a lost about men, and let you know why my girlfriend is a QUEEN. First..every man or should I say (good man) wants to feel like a man and have his woman treat him like a king, and if this one woman makes him feel like he is a king, that man will treat her as a queen. QUEENS don't spread there legs for every man they THINK their in love with. A good king WILL wait to marry you first. Queens know there place in a relationship and respect and obey their King...now I know some of you women right now might get scared or angry at the last sentence but what if I said to you as your King."I'll love you and you only forever, I'll never leave you for anyother woman, I'll support us both and our kidsYou'll always have whatever you want if I can provide. Some women want to be Kings so much, they've forgot what it's like to be a Queen. Would you as a woman,could you mostly as an American woman, let a man be a king?

for you ladies with negative hostile comments, sorry you have not a true king to treat you well, it shows in your words and for that I'm sorry.

Also to the lady ask me to define what I mean by "obey" .a man must feel he is the leader of the home hold...it drives us good men, to take care of our families our wife, to be a better man cause we have a great women. Yes you have an opinion and you talk with us, we listen but let go and allow him ( the King ) to have the final say so.

this to the comment from Dappersmom.....sex is not the most important thing in life, sex can be improved throug practice with each other....why do you value the physical part so much? A women is far more attractive mentally cause age catchs up with us all. I spend hours in the gym and have dated many women and I've found out the after sex there's nothing there....ladies this is way men leave...cause relationship was based on sex. I'll take an inexperienced woman anyday. Dappermom sorry if you've never had a man truly love you, why are you so mad??

Answer 1

I almost stopped reading but then I read the rest of your explaination,,if I could find a man who treated me as you have described I would certainly treat him like a king

Answer 2

No, first of all this whole king and queen thing is just silly. Its life, day after day. No I'm not going to marry someone I've never had sex with...what if you suck at it? Then I'm stuck with you for life and no good sex, maybe in your king/queen fairy tale that works, in real life it doesn't. A womans place in the relationship is one that is EQUAL to the mans (and thats where you guys screw up, you start thinking that because you have a penis you are the boss, guess what your penis ain't worth all that). How did you get to this she 'respects and obeys the king'.....why isn't that he respects and obeys her? Really why is that you see it that way, the penis thing? I would love to hear how you justify that. Cause really what else do you have that she doesn't? Why shouldn't you obey her for no other reason than she has breasts? And if its the penis thing shouldn't there be a system, I mean if that makes you KING shouldn't a man with a big penis be more respected than one with an average penis? I liked the IF I can provide thing, thats kinda funny, what do you mean if? You want me to 'serve, respect and obey' you there better not be an IF in the provider statement. I don't care who you are nobody can say they'll love somebody forever, I mean sure they can say it, but life happens and things change. You guys fall in love with a woman because of who she is, what she stands for, what she does and then want them to forget all that later and become someone less than you are. And by the way, even if you do love her 'forever' what happens if she sits around helplessly allowing you to care for her and then you get hit by a truck? What does she do then? What happens if you end up seriously injured and NEED her to take care of you and provide, but you are the king and she is a weak queen waiting for your orders to obey, how does she get that done? Like I said, real life. Its ridiculous fiction you wrote here and obviously you've not had enough real life experience to see the flaws in your plan.

Answer 3

It's not so much that we Want to be Kings...it's more so that we have been thrust into the role by the wannabe's who don't even turn out to be royalty. I believe that man's place is at the head of the household, and that women are place there to be the helpmate; one of the best lines I ever heard was, "The man is the head, but the woman is the neck..." I must say that I mostly agree with the "Queens know [their] place in a relationship and respect and obey their king," with the exception of the "obey" part. Relationships are about give and take, and each person should SUBMIT to one another; obedience is reserved for pets and children.

So to directly answer your question, yes, I would let the man be the king.

Answer 4

I would have a problem with a man being a King if he really would be that. But what happens so often when we try to let them being Kings they want to lay around the house, not take care of the family and boss every one around and we women have to step in the King role (I don't say it's right but that's what happens) if we want to feed, clothe and provide a roof for our families. So if any American men are ready to be true Kings, I don't think we would have a problem with that. Now that obey thing, I'm a little confuse by that. Does that mean I don't have an opinion or a say? Explain that part.

Answer 5

i would love for the man to be king. waiting for marraige...kudos!! a lot of women are into the being independant and letting the man stay home and stuff. i'm kinda old fashioned, when you have kids in the house i think it's the womens job to stay with them. if they go to school, she could have like a part time job if she wanted. and before kids, the women should do whatever she wants as far as a career goes. but the king has to respect his queen. let her go out with her girls, give her credit for taking care of the house all of the time\

anyways, good question..
peace

Answer 6

I truly believe that the man should be the head of the household - king if you will.... but I've treated my man like a king for almost 14 years, and I haven't been treated like a queen yet...... still waiting..

Answer 7

I love my man and treat him like a king all the time, whenever he needs me I'm there because he takes care of me, and also treats like I'm more than a queen. He loves me so much, I cant do anything other than treat him like the king he is, because thats what he deserves.

Answer 8

ok, put down the crack pipe. what is this king and queen sh*t. in a relationship it is about 2 people. Treating each other the same. Most men cant be kings because they are too busy being little boys and expect there wives to be there mommies!! I havent met a man that could be a king ever! What planet are you on --- really??

Answer 9

Ya know,this actually made me think.I agree with you to an extent.I don't think it's right for a man to think they are better than a woman,but men do need to feel that they are the provider and the protector.I guess if the women take that away from them,then the men will give up their right to provide and protect and become the insensitive creatures we all know they can be.

Answer 10

It is funny that you should ask that question. Because my husband name means King. And I do try to treat him as one. Most women feel that they need a man to provided for them. But I don't I feel that we should be Equal in all respect. So in that frame of mind. He is my King and I am his Queen. And I value is trust and love for me not to hurt me, and to do the very best he can for me.